"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Friend of mine, he's over 50 and overweight, don't get me wrong...he looks decent for a heavy set guy...dresses nice when he goes out, but indeed has a weight problem.
He's taken more notice in it since he's seen pictures of himself lately.

He's like, "Man I need to loose weight!"

We got to talking about a certain social group and single women there. And he was like "Man, what a cattle call that is!"

I agreed, it was...but, I am on the verge of saying, "Dude, pot calling the kettle black?"

Ever met guys like this?
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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wifehunter

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Friend of mine, he's over 50 and overweight, don't get me wrong...he looks decent for a heavy set guy...dresses nice when he goes out, but indeed has a weight problem.
He's taken more notice in it since he's seen pictures of himself lately.

He's like, "Man I need to loose weight!"

We got to talking about a certain social group and single women there. And he was like "Man, what a cattle call that is!"

I agreed, it was...but, I am on the verge of saying, "Dude, pot calling the kettle black?"

Ever met guys like this?
Throw a rock, you might hit one.
 

Dust 2 Dust

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Generally speaking no HB's are gonna give you the time of day if you're that heavy. I've been there and the truth is if you're chubby you become invisible to women. There are plenty of fat women that want fit men.
 

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It's true I I once had a blonde hb8 who I got to third base with reject me over the bod. I was a double salad dodger at the time so I have to respect her call. She actually had the cheek to ask me to lift up my shirt in a restaurant. I said I would if she would. Unfortunately she didn't take me up on it Shame those puppies were something to behold. She went to the gym beautician etc so it was a straight value disconnect.
 

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Friend of mine, he's over 50 and overweight, don't get me wrong...he looks decent for a heavy set guy...dresses nice when he goes out, but indeed has a weight problem.
He's taken more notice in it since he's seen pictures of himself lately.

He's like, "Man I need to loose weight!"

We got to talking about a certain social group and single women there. And he was like "Man, what a cattle call that is!"

I agreed, it was...but, I am on the verge of saying, "Dude, pot calling the kettle black?"

Ever met guys like this?
it's far more common in women than men (with being fat specifically), lots of men are delusional about their looks/value though
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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