"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Dude, look in the mirror

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Friend of mine, he's over 50 and overweight, don't get me wrong...he looks decent for a heavy set guy...dresses nice when he goes out, but indeed has a weight problem.
He's taken more notice in it since he's seen pictures of himself lately.

He's like, "Man I need to loose weight!"

We got to talking about a certain social group and single women there. And he was like "Man, what a cattle call that is!"

I agreed, it was...but, I am on the verge of saying, "Dude, pot calling the kettle black?"

Ever met guys like this?
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Friend of mine, he's over 50 and overweight, don't get me wrong...he looks decent for a heavy set guy...dresses nice when he goes out, but indeed has a weight problem.
He's taken more notice in it since he's seen pictures of himself lately.

He's like, "Man I need to loose weight!"

We got to talking about a certain social group and single women there. And he was like "Man, what a cattle call that is!"

I agreed, it was...but, I am on the verge of saying, "Dude, pot calling the kettle black?"

Ever met guys like this?
Throw a rock, you might hit one.
 

Dust 2 Dust

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Generally speaking no HB's are gonna give you the time of day if you're that heavy. I've been there and the truth is if you're chubby you become invisible to women. There are plenty of fat women that want fit men.
 

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It's true I I once had a blonde hb8 who I got to third base with reject me over the bod. I was a double salad dodger at the time so I have to respect her call. She actually had the cheek to ask me to lift up my shirt in a restaurant. I said I would if she would. Unfortunately she didn't take me up on it Shame those puppies were something to behold. She went to the gym beautician etc so it was a straight value disconnect.
 

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Friend of mine, he's over 50 and overweight, don't get me wrong...he looks decent for a heavy set guy...dresses nice when he goes out, but indeed has a weight problem.
He's taken more notice in it since he's seen pictures of himself lately.

He's like, "Man I need to loose weight!"

We got to talking about a certain social group and single women there. And he was like "Man, what a cattle call that is!"

I agreed, it was...but, I am on the verge of saying, "Dude, pot calling the kettle black?"

Ever met guys like this?
it's far more common in women than men (with being fat specifically), lots of men are delusional about their looks/value though
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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