After today, I've decided that I don't really think I want to waste anymore time trying to get Amanda. It's just so stupid man, we never get the oppurtunity to talk and she probably wouldn't like me anyway if I did attempt to talk to her. PLUS there's this other dude in band that I always see her hanging around with and I start to figure, what the f*ck's the point. I never have the oppurtunity to approach this chick AND she could possibly have a boyfriend? I just don't think Amanda's worth it any more. She's always surrounded by either her guy friends, girl friends or I just don't have an oppurtunity to approach her. One of the guy friends seems like just that, a friend, but I don't know, the other one might be the boyfriend. But yeah, after today, I'm seriously considering not wasting anymore time with this girl and just moving on to someone else. If I do continue to try and get it, I don't care, I'm gonna ****block/AMOG her guy friends and go into a multiple set if she's with her friends.
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Dude, I'm thinking about giving up on Amanda.
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"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
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Dont be a ****blocker and if you'v enever approached her then what are you doing here, get out there and try at least. If it dosent work then find another girl. Might as well try and fail, you'll get experience. Also stop with the negatives, your overthinking and complicating the situation. Just assume she's single and thinks your the best thing since sliced bread and go from there.
So I should just not approach her because another guy's talking? That's crap man because she's always talking to some other dude OR talking to a friend. If I just keep waiting until she's isolated, I'll never talk to her.navyseal2101 said:Dont be a ****blocker and if you'v enever approached her then what are you doing here, get out there and try at least. If it dosent work then find another girl. Might as well try and fail, you'll get experience. Also stop with the negatives, your overthinking and complicating the situation. Just assume she's single and thinks your the best thing since sliced bread and go from there.
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I nevr said dont approach her infact I said approach her asap. I think you missinturprated.
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
hey Elstud! i love your stuff, its so good... i used it at the mall the yesterday and it worked flawlessly! keep on posting! i love reading your threads and using them in the field... i almost got a girls number!! DONT GIVE UP ON AMANDA! you are the master.... i know you can pull it off man... just tell her your prince story again!
Hey, Mr.Confidence.
This is the way it is.
a) you don't approach.
result: nothing. You will look back one day and see what a pu$$y you have been.
b) you approach and you get rejected.
result: u r still the same person. You gain experience.
c) you approach and succeed.
result: you'll gain a lot of confidence and become more experienced.
it's your time to choose what u wanna do.
This is the way it is.
a) you don't approach.
result: nothing. You will look back one day and see what a pu$$y you have been.
b) you approach and you get rejected.
result: u r still the same person. You gain experience.
c) you approach and succeed.
result: you'll gain a lot of confidence and become more experienced.
it's your time to choose what u wanna do.