After today, I've decided that I don't really think I want to waste anymore time trying to get Amanda. It's just so stupid man, we never get the oppurtunity to talk and she probably wouldn't like me anyway if I did attempt to talk to her. PLUS there's this other dude in band that I always see her hanging around with and I start to figure, what the f*ck's the point. I never have the oppurtunity to approach this chick AND she could possibly have a boyfriend? I just don't think Amanda's worth it any more. She's always surrounded by either her guy friends, girl friends or I just don't have an oppurtunity to approach her. One of the guy friends seems like just that, a friend, but I don't know, the other one might be the boyfriend. But yeah, after today, I'm seriously considering not wasting anymore time with this girl and just moving on to someone else. If I do continue to try and get it, I don't care, I'm gonna ****block/AMOG her guy friends and go into a multiple set if she's with her friends.
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
Dude, I'm thinking about giving up on Amanda.
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Dont be a ****blocker and if you'v enever approached her then what are you doing here, get out there and try at least. If it dosent work then find another girl. Might as well try and fail, you'll get experience. Also stop with the negatives, your overthinking and complicating the situation. Just assume she's single and thinks your the best thing since sliced bread and go from there.
So I should just not approach her because another guy's talking? That's crap man because she's always talking to some other dude OR talking to a friend. If I just keep waiting until she's isolated, I'll never talk to her.navyseal2101 said:Dont be a ****blocker and if you'v enever approached her then what are you doing here, get out there and try at least. If it dosent work then find another girl. Might as well try and fail, you'll get experience. Also stop with the negatives, your overthinking and complicating the situation. Just assume she's single and thinks your the best thing since sliced bread and go from there.
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I nevr said dont approach her infact I said approach her asap. I think you missinturprated.
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
hey Elstud! i love your stuff, its so good... i used it at the mall the yesterday and it worked flawlessly! keep on posting! i love reading your threads and using them in the field... i almost got a girls number!! DONT GIVE UP ON AMANDA! you are the master.... i know you can pull it off man... just tell her your prince story again!
Hey, Mr.Confidence.
This is the way it is.
a) you don't approach.
result: nothing. You will look back one day and see what a pu$$y you have been.
b) you approach and you get rejected.
result: u r still the same person. You gain experience.
c) you approach and succeed.
result: you'll gain a lot of confidence and become more experienced.
it's your time to choose what u wanna do.
This is the way it is.
a) you don't approach.
result: nothing. You will look back one day and see what a pu$$y you have been.
b) you approach and you get rejected.
result: u r still the same person. You gain experience.
c) you approach and succeed.
result: you'll gain a lot of confidence and become more experienced.
it's your time to choose what u wanna do.