After today, I've decided that I don't really think I want to waste anymore time trying to get Amanda. It's just so stupid man, we never get the oppurtunity to talk and she probably wouldn't like me anyway if I did attempt to talk to her. PLUS there's this other dude in band that I always see her hanging around with and I start to figure, what the f*ck's the point. I never have the oppurtunity to approach this chick AND she could possibly have a boyfriend? I just don't think Amanda's worth it any more. She's always surrounded by either her guy friends, girl friends or I just don't have an oppurtunity to approach her. One of the guy friends seems like just that, a friend, but I don't know, the other one might be the boyfriend. But yeah, after today, I'm seriously considering not wasting anymore time with this girl and just moving on to someone else. If I do continue to try and get it, I don't care, I'm gonna ****block/AMOG her guy friends and go into a multiple set if she's with her friends.
"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
Dude, I'm thinking about giving up on Amanda.
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"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
navyseal2101
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Dont be a ****blocker and if you'v enever approached her then what are you doing here, get out there and try at least. If it dosent work then find another girl. Might as well try and fail, you'll get experience. Also stop with the negatives, your overthinking and complicating the situation. Just assume she's single and thinks your the best thing since sliced bread and go from there.
So I should just not approach her because another guy's talking? That's crap man because she's always talking to some other dude OR talking to a friend. If I just keep waiting until she's isolated, I'll never talk to her.navyseal2101 said:Dont be a ****blocker and if you'v enever approached her then what are you doing here, get out there and try at least. If it dosent work then find another girl. Might as well try and fail, you'll get experience. Also stop with the negatives, your overthinking and complicating the situation. Just assume she's single and thinks your the best thing since sliced bread and go from there.
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I nevr said dont approach her infact I said approach her asap. I think you missinturprated.
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
hey Elstud! i love your stuff, its so good... i used it at the mall the yesterday and it worked flawlessly! keep on posting! i love reading your threads and using them in the field... i almost got a girls number!! DONT GIVE UP ON AMANDA! you are the master.... i know you can pull it off man... just tell her your prince story again!
Hey, Mr.Confidence.
This is the way it is.
a) you don't approach.
result: nothing. You will look back one day and see what a pu$$y you have been.
b) you approach and you get rejected.
result: u r still the same person. You gain experience.
c) you approach and succeed.
result: you'll gain a lot of confidence and become more experienced.
it's your time to choose what u wanna do.
This is the way it is.
a) you don't approach.
result: nothing. You will look back one day and see what a pu$$y you have been.
b) you approach and you get rejected.
result: u r still the same person. You gain experience.
c) you approach and succeed.
result: you'll gain a lot of confidence and become more experienced.
it's your time to choose what u wanna do.