I've heard before that drunken words are sober thoughts but I'm still not sure. Yesterday I was drinking with some friends and this girl got trashed and she said she wanted to fcuk me and she was touching me alot. I would of done something but she was about to pass out. I hang out with her often but I can't read her IL like I can with other girls. Do you think that it meant anything or she was just drunk and horny?
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Drunken Words?
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"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Yes, with drunken words come sober thoughts. People have all sorts of secrets that they would never mention when sober, but when drunk their judging abilities are greatly impaired. If a girl says she wants to **** you when drunk, she wants to **** you, and probably has wanted to for a while.
Drunken words don't mean sh!t. Think about it. You could be blinded and be with a chick you wouldn't touch sober and be saying stuff like 'oh your so hot let's fck!'.
HOWEVER if you already know her this is different. It's probably true then. Just be careful and don't take it too seriously. Things change the next day when everyone is sobered up.
HOWEVER if you already know her this is different. It's probably true then. Just be careful and don't take it too seriously. Things change the next day when everyone is sobered up.
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djnc said:Drunken words are just confusing
That is one of the reasons I don't watch American Idol.
But seriously OP, You should take her words with a grain of salt. If you want her, then you should just go for her.
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
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It at least shows that she has some interest in you. Getting drunk doesn't make you do things you don't wanna do; it makes you do things you do wanna do, or extrapolates a feeling or desire.
I just worked out the true answer.
Drunken words aren't sober thoughts, they are just what that person is thinking right at that very moment. It doesn't have to mean anything about what they have thought of you before it is just whatever they are feeling in that moment, while drunk.
Drunken words aren't sober thoughts, they are just what that person is thinking right at that very moment. It doesn't have to mean anything about what they have thought of you before it is just whatever they are feeling in that moment, while drunk.
What if they say something like "I've thought _________ for sooooo long"SinJester said:I just worked out the true answer.
Drunken words aren't sober thoughts, they are just what that person is thinking right at that very moment. It doesn't have to mean anything about what they have thought of you before it is just whatever they are feeling in that moment, while drunk.
Then that changes it. You have to use your own judgement. I've got with a girl while we were both pretty drunk and that happened. I've also got with a girl who didn't want anything to do with me sober. This subject interests me, even though I have now given up drinking.djnc said:What if they say something like "I've thought _________ for sooooo long"
trueSinJester said:Then that changes it. You have to use your own judgement. I've got with a girl while we were both pretty drunk and that happened. I've also got with a girl who didn't want anything to do with me sober. This subject interests me, even though I have now given up drinking.
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.