I've heard before that drunken words are sober thoughts but I'm still not sure. Yesterday I was drinking with some friends and this girl got trashed and she said she wanted to fcuk me and she was touching me alot. I would of done something but she was about to pass out. I hang out with her often but I can't read her IL like I can with other girls. Do you think that it meant anything or she was just drunk and horny?
Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single
She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.
You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.
The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.
Drunken Words?
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"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
Yes, with drunken words come sober thoughts. People have all sorts of secrets that they would never mention when sober, but when drunk their judging abilities are greatly impaired. If a girl says she wants to **** you when drunk, she wants to **** you, and probably has wanted to for a while.
Drunken words don't mean sh!t. Think about it. You could be blinded and be with a chick you wouldn't touch sober and be saying stuff like 'oh your so hot let's fck!'.
HOWEVER if you already know her this is different. It's probably true then. Just be careful and don't take it too seriously. Things change the next day when everyone is sobered up.
HOWEVER if you already know her this is different. It's probably true then. Just be careful and don't take it too seriously. Things change the next day when everyone is sobered up.
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djnc said:Drunken words are just confusing
That is one of the reasons I don't watch American Idol.
But seriously OP, You should take her words with a grain of salt. If you want her, then you should just go for her.
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
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It at least shows that she has some interest in you. Getting drunk doesn't make you do things you don't wanna do; it makes you do things you do wanna do, or extrapolates a feeling or desire.
I just worked out the true answer.
Drunken words aren't sober thoughts, they are just what that person is thinking right at that very moment. It doesn't have to mean anything about what they have thought of you before it is just whatever they are feeling in that moment, while drunk.
Drunken words aren't sober thoughts, they are just what that person is thinking right at that very moment. It doesn't have to mean anything about what they have thought of you before it is just whatever they are feeling in that moment, while drunk.
What if they say something like "I've thought _________ for sooooo long"SinJester said:I just worked out the true answer.
Drunken words aren't sober thoughts, they are just what that person is thinking right at that very moment. It doesn't have to mean anything about what they have thought of you before it is just whatever they are feeling in that moment, while drunk.
Then that changes it. You have to use your own judgement. I've got with a girl while we were both pretty drunk and that happened. I've also got with a girl who didn't want anything to do with me sober. This subject interests me, even though I have now given up drinking.djnc said:What if they say something like "I've thought _________ for sooooo long"
trueSinJester said:Then that changes it. You have to use your own judgement. I've got with a girl while we were both pretty drunk and that happened. I've also got with a girl who didn't want anything to do with me sober. This subject interests me, even though I have now given up drinking.
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.