I've heard before that drunken words are sober thoughts but I'm still not sure. Yesterday I was drinking with some friends and this girl got trashed and she said she wanted to fcuk me and she was touching me alot. I would of done something but she was about to pass out. I hang out with her often but I can't read her IL like I can with other girls. Do you think that it meant anything or she was just drunk and horny?
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
Drunken Words?
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"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
Yes, with drunken words come sober thoughts. People have all sorts of secrets that they would never mention when sober, but when drunk their judging abilities are greatly impaired. If a girl says she wants to **** you when drunk, she wants to **** you, and probably has wanted to for a while.
Drunken words don't mean sh!t. Think about it. You could be blinded and be with a chick you wouldn't touch sober and be saying stuff like 'oh your so hot let's fck!'.
HOWEVER if you already know her this is different. It's probably true then. Just be careful and don't take it too seriously. Things change the next day when everyone is sobered up.
HOWEVER if you already know her this is different. It's probably true then. Just be careful and don't take it too seriously. Things change the next day when everyone is sobered up.
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djnc said:Drunken words are just confusing
That is one of the reasons I don't watch American Idol.
But seriously OP, You should take her words with a grain of salt. If you want her, then you should just go for her.
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I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
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It at least shows that she has some interest in you. Getting drunk doesn't make you do things you don't wanna do; it makes you do things you do wanna do, or extrapolates a feeling or desire.
I just worked out the true answer.
Drunken words aren't sober thoughts, they are just what that person is thinking right at that very moment. It doesn't have to mean anything about what they have thought of you before it is just whatever they are feeling in that moment, while drunk.
Drunken words aren't sober thoughts, they are just what that person is thinking right at that very moment. It doesn't have to mean anything about what they have thought of you before it is just whatever they are feeling in that moment, while drunk.
What if they say something like "I've thought _________ for sooooo long"SinJester said:I just worked out the true answer.
Drunken words aren't sober thoughts, they are just what that person is thinking right at that very moment. It doesn't have to mean anything about what they have thought of you before it is just whatever they are feeling in that moment, while drunk.
Then that changes it. You have to use your own judgement. I've got with a girl while we were both pretty drunk and that happened. I've also got with a girl who didn't want anything to do with me sober. This subject interests me, even though I have now given up drinking.djnc said:What if they say something like "I've thought _________ for sooooo long"
trueSinJester said:Then that changes it. You have to use your own judgement. I've got with a girl while we were both pretty drunk and that happened. I've also got with a girl who didn't want anything to do with me sober. This subject interests me, even though I have now given up drinking.
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.