trans_am17
Don Juan
The manager called and said I have to take a drug test again because the hospital said the results were inconclusive. What could cause this? Also would allergy meds mess up a drug tests?
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
Drug tests?
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"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Bible_Belt
Master Don Juan
Yes, there is a small chance that allergy meds show up as methamphetamine. Also, "inconclusive" can mean a urine sample was too diluted, as if you drank a lot of water before the test.
trans_am17
Don Juan
I've never done any drugs. I have take the drug test again tomorrow.
trans_am17
Don Juan
Is it okay to drink some water right before the tests to make sure I can go? Thats what I did last time.And the test is for illegal drugs.
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
penkitten
Master Don Juan
perhaps there the test was a dud.
it happens.
go retest. if you dont do drugs , then it will come back just fine silly.
it happens.
go retest. if you dont do drugs , then it will come back just fine silly.
diablo
Master Don Juan
Sounds like you've got nothing to worry about then. Thread closed.
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