trans_am17
Don Juan
The manager called and said I have to take a drug test again because the hospital said the results were inconclusive. What could cause this? Also would allergy meds mess up a drug tests?
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
Drug tests?
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"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Bible_Belt
Master Don Juan
Yes, there is a small chance that allergy meds show up as methamphetamine. Also, "inconclusive" can mean a urine sample was too diluted, as if you drank a lot of water before the test.
trans_am17
Don Juan
I've never done any drugs. I have take the drug test again tomorrow.
trans_am17
Don Juan
Is it okay to drink some water right before the tests to make sure I can go? Thats what I did last time.And the test is for illegal drugs.
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
penkitten
Master Don Juan
perhaps there the test was a dud.
it happens.
go retest. if you dont do drugs , then it will come back just fine silly.
it happens.
go retest. if you dont do drugs , then it will come back just fine silly.
diablo
Master Don Juan
Sounds like you've got nothing to worry about then. Thread closed.
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