"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Drop it or no?

disgustipated

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Somethings bugggin me bout the ex even though were just fwbs now. It's gnawing at my mind like an unsolved mystery. Cold case shiit here.

So. Just ****ing around with her on the phone the subject of weed popped up. I jokingly asked who is your guy, as in dealer. Now, when we were together I asked her this same exact question and she fuucking stammered...very unlike her. I could tell she was hiding something. I followed up with not too probing questions like has he been in the house....yes. Never asked if they ****ed though. She told me his name back then but I forgot.....kinda dropped the whole thing back then.

Tonight she stammered a fuuckingain!! There's two ways I can go about this. I'm just wanting to get to the bottom of if she actually did fuuck him when we were together. After snooping her fb the other week I saw mention of a guy who was a bootycall way before me....remembered his name this time. Maybe its this fella. I could pressure her to give up the dealers name....if they match, and I'm satisfied she's not lying, I probably have my man. Then I could ask her a series of questions that would probably reveal the truth. She's a horrible liar when she does lie.

Or, drop it. What does it matter right? But damn sometimes I wanna look behind the black curtain.....

I just hate recognizing inconsistencies after the fact and thinking I was manipulated.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Bokanovsky

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disgustipated said:
Then I could ask her a series of questions that would probably reveal the truth. She's a horrible liar when she does lie.
Why bother? It's pretty obvious that she fvcked him for free weed (perhaps other things too). Women who are into drugs do this all the time.
 

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Dear Disgustipated,
Yeah bonking for your dealer is part of the culture,he is not a threat of course,but neither is she anything other than a Plate!
 
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