MoreThanSmooth
Master Don Juan
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- Nov 8, 2017
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Well it was an...unusual night. Kind of insane actually, like the king of mixed signals.
Bit of a long story but whatever, I need to explain all this stuff to make any sense of it.
First of all she opened by talking about her ex. Fine, we both knew the guy, so whatever. Then she started talking about herself...for like 40 minutes (!). I couldn't get a word in edgeways, it was kind of crazy. She starts telling me how modern dating sucks but she's banged a couple of people recently (okay, why is she telling me this?)
Tried to take some control of the conversation a bunch of times but got nowhere at this point, she was still talking 90% of it. Then she kept apologising for talking too much! Eventually she asked about me and I got a few minutes to talk about my own life. Then it was back to her stories again...riight.
Then we moved to another bar. We sat at a much closer table this time, and since I'd been holding a lot of eye contact, I moved to attempting kino. Limited success. She didn't withdraw away when I touched her hands and arms, she didn't react at all, but she did move her legs when we touched. Then I tried again and she didn't move her legs this time, but also didn't actively reciprocate.
Anyway she shows me some stuff on her phone pretty close to me and our arms were left touching a while, but really I didn't get anywhere further with the physical touch. Here's the thing - on her phone, she's showing me all these loser guys who are trying to slide into her DMs, and she's laughing about them with me. Clearly she doesn't consider me one of these jokers, but I thought this was weird. Some kind of social proofing? Trying to show her value to me? Or sees me as a gay best friend?
Then she says "Men are just garbage I guess."
Obviously I'm not going to listen to that. I responded in a friendly but straightforward manner and said "Yeah, that's bulls**t. Not all of us. You need a better type of man."
That's a pretty heavy f*cking hint from me there, right? Then she responds with:
"I know, but these are the only options I have right now."
WTF? The little voice in my mind was like "You have an educated, single hot guy sat across from you and you're saying you have no options but these fuccbois? WUT."
Seriously f***ing weird response from her. Frankly, I'm also hotter than her ex...I dunno, she's showing me these garbage tier Gamma males and yet she doesn't see me as an alternative? Freaking crazy.
Anyway I wrap the date up, she was keen to keep hanging out even longer but I ended it. Got the usual hug, no kiss, she texted me telling me she had a great time. Despite all this insanity I decided to test the water with a "We should do something again" and she said she likes the sound of that, but honestly I have no idea WTF the night was all about tbh.
Another note: she was playing with her hair for the whole damn time. Like constantly running her hands through it. I normally take that as a flirtation signal but the kino went absolutely nowhere.
She also drew my attention to her boobs a bunch of times and even her thighs (she was telling me she works out and stroked her inner thigh a bunch of times, like pointing her legs out). At one point she discussed bras and literally started pushing and holding her boobs up and down, talking about her hips and dimensions and everything. Again, this should be flirty asf right? But she shut my kino right the f**k down, so I have no idea.
Perplexing. I guess the fact it was even confusing means it's basically game over here.
Bit of a long story but whatever, I need to explain all this stuff to make any sense of it.
First of all she opened by talking about her ex. Fine, we both knew the guy, so whatever. Then she started talking about herself...for like 40 minutes (!). I couldn't get a word in edgeways, it was kind of crazy. She starts telling me how modern dating sucks but she's banged a couple of people recently (okay, why is she telling me this?)
Tried to take some control of the conversation a bunch of times but got nowhere at this point, she was still talking 90% of it. Then she kept apologising for talking too much! Eventually she asked about me and I got a few minutes to talk about my own life. Then it was back to her stories again...riight.
Then we moved to another bar. We sat at a much closer table this time, and since I'd been holding a lot of eye contact, I moved to attempting kino. Limited success. She didn't withdraw away when I touched her hands and arms, she didn't react at all, but she did move her legs when we touched. Then I tried again and she didn't move her legs this time, but also didn't actively reciprocate.
Anyway she shows me some stuff on her phone pretty close to me and our arms were left touching a while, but really I didn't get anywhere further with the physical touch. Here's the thing - on her phone, she's showing me all these loser guys who are trying to slide into her DMs, and she's laughing about them with me. Clearly she doesn't consider me one of these jokers, but I thought this was weird. Some kind of social proofing? Trying to show her value to me? Or sees me as a gay best friend?
Then she says "Men are just garbage I guess."
Obviously I'm not going to listen to that. I responded in a friendly but straightforward manner and said "Yeah, that's bulls**t. Not all of us. You need a better type of man."
That's a pretty heavy f*cking hint from me there, right? Then she responds with:
"I know, but these are the only options I have right now."
WTF? The little voice in my mind was like "You have an educated, single hot guy sat across from you and you're saying you have no options but these fuccbois? WUT."
Seriously f***ing weird response from her. Frankly, I'm also hotter than her ex...I dunno, she's showing me these garbage tier Gamma males and yet she doesn't see me as an alternative? Freaking crazy.
Anyway I wrap the date up, she was keen to keep hanging out even longer but I ended it. Got the usual hug, no kiss, she texted me telling me she had a great time. Despite all this insanity I decided to test the water with a "We should do something again" and she said she likes the sound of that, but honestly I have no idea WTF the night was all about tbh.
Another note: she was playing with her hair for the whole damn time. Like constantly running her hands through it. I normally take that as a flirtation signal but the kino went absolutely nowhere.
She also drew my attention to her boobs a bunch of times and even her thighs (she was telling me she works out and stroked her inner thigh a bunch of times, like pointing her legs out). At one point she discussed bras and literally started pushing and holding her boobs up and down, talking about her hips and dimensions and everything. Again, this should be flirty asf right? But she shut my kino right the f**k down, so I have no idea.
Perplexing. I guess the fact it was even confusing means it's basically game over here.