“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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Drinking and escalating

lizardking82

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Do you guys think drinking is needed to escalate? Like, cause I see this advice a lot on SS where different members say "take some alcohol, take her to your place and escalate". I mean, personally, I never needed alcohol to escalate. Like, do you think it is "needed" and greatly helps or maybe it is just for the shy guys and people in general?
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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It just doesn't hurt your chances is all.

Alcohol promotes relaxation, takes the edges off, and relieves anxiety. All of which help create an atmosphere for escalation.

It's also why i don't like coffee dates. Caffeine pretty much has the opposite effect of alcohol.
 

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Story time!

I once went to a backyard party with probably 30 people. There was a smoking hot 18-year-old there. She drank way too much and started taking her clothes off. I mean like for no reason at all, just stripping down.

Her friends would yell at her and put her clothes back on her, but this girl was persistent. She just kept stripping down to nothing. Tan, perky little titties and a tight little cooch.

All the other females were annoyed or frustrated or whatever and started leaving. Now you have a young hottie taking her clothes off around probably 15 guys. Obviously, she's the center of attention.

The birthday boy pulled his **** out and she immediately started slurping, ass in the air. Guy after guy started taking turns on her.

I will never forget that night. Alcohol, bro.
 

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Necessary? No. If she has high IL she's not going to need it. Does it hurt? No. People tend to get along better, and inhibitions tend to ease, when lubricated.

In most cases, (unless she's super shy, reserved, etc) if you really want to know her IL, make moves when sober.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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No, but it's a great way into alcoholism.
 

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Forgot to add that alcohol will also increase the odds of Fukking things up exponentially.
 

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Alcohol might help if you have a fun vibes, good interest level.... but don't drink more than 2 glass....

Cause you don't want to be drunk...

Drunk is for kids and immature

All my first date are wine bar... help to know where the 2nd date will be
 

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Alcohol might help if you have a fun vibes, good interest level.... but don't drink more than 2 glass....

Cause you don't want to be drunk...

Drunk is for kids and immature

All my first date are wine bar... help to know where the 2nd date will be
Most people can't stop a 2 drinks! Nobody has self control anymore! Lol!:p
 
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