“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

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These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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Drinking and escalating

lizardking82

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Do you guys think drinking is needed to escalate? Like, cause I see this advice a lot on SS where different members say "take some alcohol, take her to your place and escalate". I mean, personally, I never needed alcohol to escalate. Like, do you think it is "needed" and greatly helps or maybe it is just for the shy guys and people in general?
 

What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.

You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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It just doesn't hurt your chances is all.

Alcohol promotes relaxation, takes the edges off, and relieves anxiety. All of which help create an atmosphere for escalation.

It's also why i don't like coffee dates. Caffeine pretty much has the opposite effect of alcohol.
 

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Story time!

I once went to a backyard party with probably 30 people. There was a smoking hot 18-year-old there. She drank way too much and started taking her clothes off. I mean like for no reason at all, just stripping down.

Her friends would yell at her and put her clothes back on her, but this girl was persistent. She just kept stripping down to nothing. Tan, perky little titties and a tight little cooch.

All the other females were annoyed or frustrated or whatever and started leaving. Now you have a young hottie taking her clothes off around probably 15 guys. Obviously, she's the center of attention.

The birthday boy pulled his **** out and she immediately started slurping, ass in the air. Guy after guy started taking turns on her.

I will never forget that night. Alcohol, bro.
 

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Necessary? No. If she has high IL she's not going to need it. Does it hurt? No. People tend to get along better, and inhibitions tend to ease, when lubricated.

In most cases, (unless she's super shy, reserved, etc) if you really want to know her IL, make moves when sober.
 

What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.

You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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No, but it's a great way into alcoholism.
 

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Forgot to add that alcohol will also increase the odds of Fukking things up exponentially.
 

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Alcohol might help if you have a fun vibes, good interest level.... but don't drink more than 2 glass....

Cause you don't want to be drunk...

Drunk is for kids and immature

All my first date are wine bar... help to know where the 2nd date will be
 

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Alcohol might help if you have a fun vibes, good interest level.... but don't drink more than 2 glass....

Cause you don't want to be drunk...

Drunk is for kids and immature

All my first date are wine bar... help to know where the 2nd date will be
Most people can't stop a 2 drinks! Nobody has self control anymore! Lol!:p
 
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