"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Dress Shirt Colors

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Bud_Fox

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Just wondering what color dress shirts people here wear.

I have White/Blue/Black/Grey, but I need to add more colors instead of wearing the same shirts to work everyday.

What colors do you guys wear?
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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penkitten

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wearing red makes you feel powerful or in control.
wearing a dark green shirt can be soothing.

but sometimes its really all about the tie, they can define so much about you.
 
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Bud_Fox

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Anyone else have any suggestions on how to mix/match shirts and ties?

I'm thinking of getting a Red Dress Shirt, but I don't really see many people wear red shirts. I was also thinking of getting a burgundy shirt like Chris from The Sopranos.

So anyone else have any suggestions? (And don't bother saying pink either)
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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sparky0000

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Just wear a freaking white shirt that FITS. Go get a fitted white dress shirt. Make sure it is fitted correctly. 95% of the American dudes wear dress shirts that are way too big. Just like they wear suits and pants that are way too baggy. Remember - GET IT FITTED. Don't go to some department store where all the flip-flop chubs go. Nope. Go to a nice department store where you are offered a drink while you try on your shirts. They usually know how shirts should fit.

Color combinations like red and black scream the dude that you bought your cell/mobile phone from.

Canali and Ferragamo have excellent dress shirts and suits. I adore both. Buy one at one of their stores and they should do a very nice job of making sure it gets fitted correctly for you. Costs too much? If practically all the Italians can afford to buy good suits you can as well.

http://www.canali.it/frame_index.jsp?lingua_id=2
You won't be sorry.
 

Skilla_Staz

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Amen. Try to get an assortment of colors. Some work with your skin tone, some don't. Bring somebody with you to help you out.
 
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I don't wear shirts!
 

Yotsuya-san

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I try to avoid the white dress shirt away from the workplace as in the West, white dress shirt equals conservative look.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Plus, white dress shirts get pretty dirty easily... I like nice blue and sometimes grey.
 
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