"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Dress Shirt Colors

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Bud_Fox

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Just wondering what color dress shirts people here wear.

I have White/Blue/Black/Grey, but I need to add more colors instead of wearing the same shirts to work everyday.

What colors do you guys wear?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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penkitten

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wearing red makes you feel powerful or in control.
wearing a dark green shirt can be soothing.

but sometimes its really all about the tie, they can define so much about you.
 
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Bud_Fox

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Anyone else have any suggestions on how to mix/match shirts and ties?

I'm thinking of getting a Red Dress Shirt, but I don't really see many people wear red shirts. I was also thinking of getting a burgundy shirt like Chris from The Sopranos.

So anyone else have any suggestions? (And don't bother saying pink either)
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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sparky0000

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Just wear a freaking white shirt that FITS. Go get a fitted white dress shirt. Make sure it is fitted correctly. 95% of the American dudes wear dress shirts that are way too big. Just like they wear suits and pants that are way too baggy. Remember - GET IT FITTED. Don't go to some department store where all the flip-flop chubs go. Nope. Go to a nice department store where you are offered a drink while you try on your shirts. They usually know how shirts should fit.

Color combinations like red and black scream the dude that you bought your cell/mobile phone from.

Canali and Ferragamo have excellent dress shirts and suits. I adore both. Buy one at one of their stores and they should do a very nice job of making sure it gets fitted correctly for you. Costs too much? If practically all the Italians can afford to buy good suits you can as well.

http://www.canali.it/frame_index.jsp?lingua_id=2
You won't be sorry.
 

Skilla_Staz

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Amen. Try to get an assortment of colors. Some work with your skin tone, some don't. Bring somebody with you to help you out.
 
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I don't wear shirts!
 

Yotsuya-san

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I try to avoid the white dress shirt away from the workplace as in the West, white dress shirt equals conservative look.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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foomee

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Plus, white dress shirts get pretty dirty easily... I like nice blue and sometimes grey.
 
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