"Blank Mind on Dates? She's Dropping Hints You Keep Missing"

The plates get cleared and the silence lands like a brick. You can feel her waiting. Your brain offers up your commute, your job, the weather — topics that have ended more second dates than bad breath.

Here's what most guys never learn: women hand out free conversational material all night long. Tiny clues about what they actually want to discuss. Catch them and you never run out of things to say — because she's telling you what to say next.

Rule 4 of the "22 Rules" trains your ear to catch every single one.

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Dreams about me?

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Ok here's the lowdown.

I'm still in the process of becoming a DJ. Well, the girl im going after right now told me tonight
"i think i had a dream about you yesterday...but i dont remember exactly what it was. All i know is it was good and when i woke up my shorts were off and i was just in my panties."
And then later she talked about how she wanted to "rape" me...

Now, im not the sharpest guy around(a bit of a doofus is what ive been told), we've gone on a few dates already but is it safe to say that Im getting green lights here? Or is this just flirtatiousness

O yea, and can you guys give me some more suggestions on fun dates...I've done bowling, karoake, movies already.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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LikRetsam

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as for dates, use the search feature.

Yes, she wants you. Act now.
 

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say "how could you??! how could you forget?!! we had the best night of our lives and you forget all about it?!" haha

just kidding. :D she wants you. dreams are supposedly comprised of the things you think about or what matters to you. go for it.
 

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You've honestly got to be joking. I'm not even going to anwser that.

However, for good date ideas, I've always liked the more subtle ones. Such as, going to a coffee house, walk in the park, things of that nature.
 

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Hi,

as long as people are giving advice in this thread, I have a question.

I went on a date with a girl last weekend and she told me she wanted to have sex, and that she fantasizes about me. She also says that I make her so horny that when she thinks about me she has no choice but to masturbate. Then she asked me if I wanted a blow job in the bathroom of Baja Fresh.

does she like me?????
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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I'm starting to see how ridiculous i sound...alrite thx for knocking some sense in to me! Gotta go for it now, i'll tell you guys how things work out.
 

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Dude screw the formalities. Invite her to your house to watch a movie and get your grind on.
 

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Originally posted by Porky
Hi,

as long as people are giving advice in this thread, I have a question.

I went on a date with a girl last weekend and she told me she wanted to have sex, and that she fantasizes about me. She also says that I make her so horny that when she thinks about me she has no choice but to masturbate. Then she asked me if I wanted a blow job in the bathroom of Baja Fresh.

does she like me?????
****ing AFC. ARE YOU BLIND? That chick wouldn't do you even if you had a 16 inch ****.
 
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