"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Dreams about me?

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Ok here's the lowdown.

I'm still in the process of becoming a DJ. Well, the girl im going after right now told me tonight
"i think i had a dream about you yesterday...but i dont remember exactly what it was. All i know is it was good and when i woke up my shorts were off and i was just in my panties."
And then later she talked about how she wanted to "rape" me...

Now, im not the sharpest guy around(a bit of a doofus is what ive been told), we've gone on a few dates already but is it safe to say that Im getting green lights here? Or is this just flirtatiousness

O yea, and can you guys give me some more suggestions on fun dates...I've done bowling, karoake, movies already.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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LikRetsam

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as for dates, use the search feature.

Yes, she wants you. Act now.
 

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say "how could you??! how could you forget?!! we had the best night of our lives and you forget all about it?!" haha

just kidding. :D she wants you. dreams are supposedly comprised of the things you think about or what matters to you. go for it.
 

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You've honestly got to be joking. I'm not even going to anwser that.

However, for good date ideas, I've always liked the more subtle ones. Such as, going to a coffee house, walk in the park, things of that nature.
 

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Hi,

as long as people are giving advice in this thread, I have a question.

I went on a date with a girl last weekend and she told me she wanted to have sex, and that she fantasizes about me. She also says that I make her so horny that when she thinks about me she has no choice but to masturbate. Then she asked me if I wanted a blow job in the bathroom of Baja Fresh.

does she like me?????
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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I'm starting to see how ridiculous i sound...alrite thx for knocking some sense in to me! Gotta go for it now, i'll tell you guys how things work out.
 

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Dude screw the formalities. Invite her to your house to watch a movie and get your grind on.
 

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Originally posted by Porky
Hi,

as long as people are giving advice in this thread, I have a question.

I went on a date with a girl last weekend and she told me she wanted to have sex, and that she fantasizes about me. She also says that I make her so horny that when she thinks about me she has no choice but to masturbate. Then she asked me if I wanted a blow job in the bathroom of Baja Fresh.

does she like me?????
****ing AFC. ARE YOU BLIND? That chick wouldn't do you even if you had a 16 inch ****.
 
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