"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Dream Job ?

frenchbeauty

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Boys,

I'm sure most of you guys right now in your senior year are thinking about this all the time ... so am I.
Here's the question : What would your dream/job career be ?

From my point of view.. being a doctor or a lawyer would be pretty cool and intersting/rewarding for sure .. so would be a career in management. And of course being in university this long is a great opportunity to play competitive sports.... and meet lads from all over the world of course ..
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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ItWasntMe

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I already have my dream job as a snowboarding instructor lol, now I just need to find a job that interests me and will keep me occupied after High School.
 

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Well, I'm 5 years from graduation, but I'd like to be a psychiatrist once I get through all the schooling and such. If that isn't set in stone, I'd like to have a job in the medical business, I've thought through Plastic Surgery and General Surgery. I don't think I would be able to handle the blood and the pressure, though.
 

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Ether said:
Well, I'm 5 years from graduation, but I'd like to be a psychiatrist once I get through all the schooling and such. If that isn't set in stone, I'd like to have a job in the medical business, I've thought through Plastic Surgery and General Surgery. I don't think I would be able to handle the blood and the pressure, though.
Well how about a regular family doctor then? That's what I've been thinking of.
 

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Here is what I want to do with my life:

1. Go to university and major in Communications and minor in philosophy

2. become a motivational speaker, publish a book and travel through the U.S. for a few years.

3. After that I want to become an image consultant/life coach.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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ChrizZ said:
Here is what I want to do with my life:

1. Go to university and major in Communications and minor in philosophy

2. become a motivational speaker, publish a book and travel through the U.S. for a few years.

3. After that I want to become an image consultant/life coach.
1.) Graduate from university with a BA in Philosophy and a BS in Business Administration: Management

2.) become a motivational speaker, publish a book, and travel throughout the WORLD.

3.) Fund raise for non-profits

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Pornstar and part-time musician xD
 

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Grand Wizzard Alamar said:
Pornstar and part-time musician xD
shooting for the stars?

comic_relief
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Grand Wizzard Alamar

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That would take all the fun out of sex. Just think about it.
I think of girls as different flavors. You get so much different sex that way and you don't have to commit to one chick if you're in the industry.
And when you're not fvckin you're jammin :D
 

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Well, it's not quite my dream job, it's my future. I'm gonna be a cop.
 

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I've done one.
Marine Corps grunt.
Now I'm finishing my engineering degree to start number 2.
 

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I gonna go to Oxford Uni to do medicine and then be a doctor, fingers crossed my interview on sunday/monday goes well
To the guy whose a snowboard instructor, could u give me a bit of info on how to go about that 'cause I'm taking a gap year and would be interested in doing something like that (I'm all ready a decent snowboarder and skier but living in the UK does limit opportunities) and then I could work in european ski resorts in winter breaks, which would be ace. I'm also on my way to being a kayaking instructor.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Well, I like exciting careers. At the moment I'm a volunteer at the local fire department and I'm enlisting in the National Guard soon as a helicopter pilot, after, I might reenlist in another branch for the same position. Honestly though, I'll take any job with an attached adrenaline rush. In the future I'd like to be a State Police officer in California, or sticking with the pilot role, a U.S. Customs Agent.
 
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