"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Dream Job ?

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Boys,

I'm sure most of you guys right now in your senior year are thinking about this all the time ... so am I.
Here's the question : What would your dream/job career be ?

From my point of view.. being a doctor or a lawyer would be pretty cool and intersting/rewarding for sure .. so would be a career in management. And of course being in university this long is a great opportunity to play competitive sports.... and meet lads from all over the world of course ..
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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I already have my dream job as a snowboarding instructor lol, now I just need to find a job that interests me and will keep me occupied after High School.
 

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Well, I'm 5 years from graduation, but I'd like to be a psychiatrist once I get through all the schooling and such. If that isn't set in stone, I'd like to have a job in the medical business, I've thought through Plastic Surgery and General Surgery. I don't think I would be able to handle the blood and the pressure, though.
 

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Ether said:
Well, I'm 5 years from graduation, but I'd like to be a psychiatrist once I get through all the schooling and such. If that isn't set in stone, I'd like to have a job in the medical business, I've thought through Plastic Surgery and General Surgery. I don't think I would be able to handle the blood and the pressure, though.
Well how about a regular family doctor then? That's what I've been thinking of.
 

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Here is what I want to do with my life:

1. Go to university and major in Communications and minor in philosophy

2. become a motivational speaker, publish a book and travel through the U.S. for a few years.

3. After that I want to become an image consultant/life coach.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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ChrizZ said:
Here is what I want to do with my life:

1. Go to university and major in Communications and minor in philosophy

2. become a motivational speaker, publish a book and travel through the U.S. for a few years.

3. After that I want to become an image consultant/life coach.
1.) Graduate from university with a BA in Philosophy and a BS in Business Administration: Management

2.) become a motivational speaker, publish a book, and travel throughout the WORLD.

3.) Fund raise for non-profits

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Pornstar and part-time musician xD
 

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Grand Wizzard Alamar said:
Pornstar and part-time musician xD
shooting for the stars?

comic_relief
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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That would take all the fun out of sex. Just think about it.
I think of girls as different flavors. You get so much different sex that way and you don't have to commit to one chick if you're in the industry.
And when you're not fvckin you're jammin :D
 

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Well, it's not quite my dream job, it's my future. I'm gonna be a cop.
 

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I've done one.
Marine Corps grunt.
Now I'm finishing my engineering degree to start number 2.
 

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I gonna go to Oxford Uni to do medicine and then be a doctor, fingers crossed my interview on sunday/monday goes well
To the guy whose a snowboard instructor, could u give me a bit of info on how to go about that 'cause I'm taking a gap year and would be interested in doing something like that (I'm all ready a decent snowboarder and skier but living in the UK does limit opportunities) and then I could work in european ski resorts in winter breaks, which would be ace. I'm also on my way to being a kayaking instructor.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Well, I like exciting careers. At the moment I'm a volunteer at the local fire department and I'm enlisting in the National Guard soon as a helicopter pilot, after, I might reenlist in another branch for the same position. Honestly though, I'll take any job with an attached adrenaline rush. In the future I'd like to be a State Police officer in California, or sticking with the pilot role, a U.S. Customs Agent.
 
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