"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Dream Job ?

frenchbeauty

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Boys,

I'm sure most of you guys right now in your senior year are thinking about this all the time ... so am I.
Here's the question : What would your dream/job career be ?

From my point of view.. being a doctor or a lawyer would be pretty cool and intersting/rewarding for sure .. so would be a career in management. And of course being in university this long is a great opportunity to play competitive sports.... and meet lads from all over the world of course ..
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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I already have my dream job as a snowboarding instructor lol, now I just need to find a job that interests me and will keep me occupied after High School.
 

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Well, I'm 5 years from graduation, but I'd like to be a psychiatrist once I get through all the schooling and such. If that isn't set in stone, I'd like to have a job in the medical business, I've thought through Plastic Surgery and General Surgery. I don't think I would be able to handle the blood and the pressure, though.
 

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Ether said:
Well, I'm 5 years from graduation, but I'd like to be a psychiatrist once I get through all the schooling and such. If that isn't set in stone, I'd like to have a job in the medical business, I've thought through Plastic Surgery and General Surgery. I don't think I would be able to handle the blood and the pressure, though.
Well how about a regular family doctor then? That's what I've been thinking of.
 

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Here is what I want to do with my life:

1. Go to university and major in Communications and minor in philosophy

2. become a motivational speaker, publish a book and travel through the U.S. for a few years.

3. After that I want to become an image consultant/life coach.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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ChrizZ said:
Here is what I want to do with my life:

1. Go to university and major in Communications and minor in philosophy

2. become a motivational speaker, publish a book and travel through the U.S. for a few years.

3. After that I want to become an image consultant/life coach.
1.) Graduate from university with a BA in Philosophy and a BS in Business Administration: Management

2.) become a motivational speaker, publish a book, and travel throughout the WORLD.

3.) Fund raise for non-profits

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Pornstar and part-time musician xD
 

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Grand Wizzard Alamar said:
Pornstar and part-time musician xD
shooting for the stars?

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"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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ItWasntMe said:
That would take all the fun out of sex. Just think about it.
I think of girls as different flavors. You get so much different sex that way and you don't have to commit to one chick if you're in the industry.
And when you're not fvckin you're jammin :D
 

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Well, it's not quite my dream job, it's my future. I'm gonna be a cop.
 

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I've done one.
Marine Corps grunt.
Now I'm finishing my engineering degree to start number 2.
 

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I gonna go to Oxford Uni to do medicine and then be a doctor, fingers crossed my interview on sunday/monday goes well
To the guy whose a snowboard instructor, could u give me a bit of info on how to go about that 'cause I'm taking a gap year and would be interested in doing something like that (I'm all ready a decent snowboarder and skier but living in the UK does limit opportunities) and then I could work in european ski resorts in winter breaks, which would be ace. I'm also on my way to being a kayaking instructor.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Well, I like exciting careers. At the moment I'm a volunteer at the local fire department and I'm enlisting in the National Guard soon as a helicopter pilot, after, I might reenlist in another branch for the same position. Honestly though, I'll take any job with an attached adrenaline rush. In the future I'd like to be a State Police officer in California, or sticking with the pilot role, a U.S. Customs Agent.
 
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