"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
Dreadlocks?
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"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Patrick124
Master Don Juan
but the whole idea that you might not be washing your hair for a few weeks/months/years or w/e...isnt going to be very hygiene-friendly, and might gross them out.
Right i thought about that too and the thought of not washing my hair kinda grosses me out too. Thats why i thought about getting dreadlock extention type things. Theres no hassle, no mess, no wax, and i can wash my hair whenever i wantPatrick124 said:girls dont relly care about looks all that much, more about how you present yourself.
but the whole idea that you might not be washing your hair for a few weeks/months/years or w/e...isnt going to be very hygiene-friendly, and might gross them out.
Hockey Playa
Master Don Juan
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
It's up to you. Your hair doesn't make you, but generally dreadlocks and fros are seen as unattractive. JMO.
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Skilla_Staz
Master Don Juan
Get a fade.
Skilla_Staz
Master Don Juan
No. I'm a white guy with a relatively short buzz cut. Just long enough to spike it without looking like a fool. Having a few black friends, I've noticed that the ones with fades and waves can pull more chicks than my black friends with nappy afros and cornrows.
speaking of hair right now my hair is pretty long (JUST touches my eyes in the front) but my hairs kinda weird and i managed to keep the front area spiked up even though its rele long... and IMO i think it looks rele unique and nice but i also hear girls like it short and stuff
shud i cut it alot? or keep it like this
(i AM gonna cut it a lil rele soon.. the bak and stuff is WAY WAY to long)
you might wanna start a new thread for that oneJunaid said:speaking of hair right now my hair is pretty long (JUST touches my eyes in the front) but my hairs kinda weird and i managed to keep the front area spiked up even though its rele long... and IMO i think it looks rele unique and nice but i also hear girls like it short and stuff
shud i cut it alot? or keep it like this
(i AM gonna cut it a lil rele soon.. the bak and stuff is WAY WAY to long)
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.