“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Dreadlocks?

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I'm thinking of getting dreadlocks (I'm half black by the way) and i was just wondering do women find dreadlocks attractive or unattractive?
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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KillaCam

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There isn't a general consensus on what all women love and don't love. It depends on the chick.
 

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girls dont relly care about looks all that much, more about how you present yourself.
but the whole idea that you might not be washing your hair for a few weeks/months/years or w/e...isnt going to be very hygiene-friendly, and might gross them out.
 

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Patrick124 said:
girls dont relly care about looks all that much, more about how you present yourself.
but the whole idea that you might not be washing your hair for a few weeks/months/years or w/e...isnt going to be very hygiene-friendly, and might gross them out.
Right i thought about that too and the thought of not washing my hair kinda grosses me out too. Thats why i thought about getting dreadlock extention type things. Theres no hassle, no mess, no wax, and i can wash my hair whenever i want
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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It depends how your dreads look. I've seen some bad dreads, but I've also seen some ****ing awesome dreads. Just do what you want because I know guys who have dreads and still get laid.
 

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Yeah its a tuff choice for me. I wish i could just try it out for a week for free but it doesnt work that way. btw i had dreads when i was younger (real ones). When i first got them i didnt take good care of them so they started to look dirty. But eventually when they got longer I decided to make a big effort to keep them neat and tidy. Then everyone loved them. But the thing is they were a great conversation started. Some women i didnt even know would come up to me and say something like "i like your dreadlocks." Boom, just lie that theres a good icebreaker. But I eventually cut them . But anyways i wont bore you with my lifes story. But i heard somewhere that women like a clean short haircut, so hearing this i just assumed that dreadlocks were a definate NO. But looking back now i think cutting them may have been a mistake. A clean haircut is good i guess but its so plain. Dreadlocks made me stand out. And i thought that might possibly be attractive to women?
 

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^^^i kno almost everybody is rockin that clean cut look.
 

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Listen to India Arie... You are not your hair, but remember when Akon said "Knappy headed brothers never had no ladies... Success didn't come till I cut it all off.."

It's up to you. Your hair doesn't make you, but generally dreadlocks and fros are seen as unattractive. JMO.
 

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Unattractive to women. But it would still look cool.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Dreadlocks. Cool if you play football. Not so cool if you want the ladies.


Get a fade.
 

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Me?

No. I'm a white guy with a relatively short buzz cut. Just long enough to spike it without looking like a fool. Having a few black friends, I've noticed that the ones with fades and waves can pull more chicks than my black friends with nappy afros and cornrows.
 

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hmm

speaking of hair right now my hair is pretty long (JUST touches my eyes in the front) but my hairs kinda weird and i managed to keep the front area spiked up even though its rele long... and IMO i think it looks rele unique and nice but i also hear girls like it short and stuff
shud i cut it alot? or keep it like this
(i AM gonna cut it a lil rele soon.. the bak and stuff is WAY WAY to long)
 

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Junaid said:
speaking of hair right now my hair is pretty long (JUST touches my eyes in the front) but my hairs kinda weird and i managed to keep the front area spiked up even though its rele long... and IMO i think it looks rele unique and nice but i also hear girls like it short and stuff
shud i cut it alot? or keep it like this
(i AM gonna cut it a lil rele soon.. the bak and stuff is WAY WAY to long)
you might wanna start a new thread for that one
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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When in doubt, keep it short and clean.
 

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girls like the clean cut look. don't do dreads, its hard to keep clean too.
 
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