"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Dreadlocks?
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“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
Patrick124
Master Don Juan
but the whole idea that you might not be washing your hair for a few weeks/months/years or w/e...isnt going to be very hygiene-friendly, and might gross them out.
Right i thought about that too and the thought of not washing my hair kinda grosses me out too. Thats why i thought about getting dreadlock extention type things. Theres no hassle, no mess, no wax, and i can wash my hair whenever i wantPatrick124 said:girls dont relly care about looks all that much, more about how you present yourself.
but the whole idea that you might not be washing your hair for a few weeks/months/years or w/e...isnt going to be very hygiene-friendly, and might gross them out.
Hockey Playa
Master Don Juan
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
It's up to you. Your hair doesn't make you, but generally dreadlocks and fros are seen as unattractive. JMO.
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
Skilla_Staz
Master Don Juan
Get a fade.
Skilla_Staz
Master Don Juan
No. I'm a white guy with a relatively short buzz cut. Just long enough to spike it without looking like a fool. Having a few black friends, I've noticed that the ones with fades and waves can pull more chicks than my black friends with nappy afros and cornrows.
speaking of hair right now my hair is pretty long (JUST touches my eyes in the front) but my hairs kinda weird and i managed to keep the front area spiked up even though its rele long... and IMO i think it looks rele unique and nice but i also hear girls like it short and stuff
shud i cut it alot? or keep it like this
(i AM gonna cut it a lil rele soon.. the bak and stuff is WAY WAY to long)
you might wanna start a new thread for that oneJunaid said:speaking of hair right now my hair is pretty long (JUST touches my eyes in the front) but my hairs kinda weird and i managed to keep the front area spiked up even though its rele long... and IMO i think it looks rele unique and nice but i also hear girls like it short and stuff
shud i cut it alot? or keep it like this
(i AM gonna cut it a lil rele soon.. the bak and stuff is WAY WAY to long)
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.