Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
I do FaceMog Ellison and the guy featured in the OP.Umm Larry Ellison for like the last 40 years…
Wait he started dating her when she was NINETEEN. And he was 58. What a creep. He's leveraging his wealth and age gap to manipulate her. I'm sure she gets a lot out of it money wise but it's creepy anyway.
My foot literally cramped up when he said hes been dating an 18 year old for 4 years... Do that math. Protect our children!!!! Omg. Our babies are not sexual objects to add to your mansion.
My word, this dude is just.. nastyhe really thinks highly of himself, meanwhile he started dating a girl who was barely a legal adult yet still couldn’t legally drink. Gross. I wonder if we find out there’s in prenup in part 2 or 3??![]()
This is simply hypergamy. This chick just hit the jackpot.
I'm sorry but what 18 year old wouldn't fall for this. Especially someone from a rough neighborhoodtalk about grooming![]()
I like money but will never degrade myself and sleep with someone I don’t love to attain it. My husbands mother is money crazy and is in a miserable marriage to keep it, she’s only happy when they are on holiday as it’s an escape from her real life.
You seriously have to question a 62 year old who romantically pursues someone who is 18 years old ( when they met) .... mentally you aren't even fully developed at that age.... also keep in mind she was in a notoriously difficult low paid job (waitressing) and came from a rough neighbourhood....it comes off as predatory and opportunistic on his part ....then when his attitude towards monogamyprobably just thinks a young girl from a poor neighbourhood will feel obliged to stay regardless of what he does![]()
Gross. Omg so they got together when she was nineteen? That’s predatory.
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
It's OVER for HarridanCellettes.Back in the day, most 62 year old men would already be married.... or be pressured to be married AND stay married and faithful. Now, with more divorces and the "hookup" culture, more older men will be in relationships with younger women. Where does this leave the older woman?
Society is changing.,... Like it always have.... IMHO, this will not be good for partner-less women who are in their late 30's and above.
Hi Luke,Back in the day, most 62 year old men would already be married.... or be pressured to be married AND stay married and faithful. Now, with more divorces and the "hookup" culture, more older men will be in relationships with younger women. Where does this leave the older woman?
Society is changing.,... Like it always have.... IMHO, this will not be good for partner-less women who are in their late 30's and above.
Hi Luke,
Don't you worry about the Older Women,they can easily find a Guy,In this Country where the gender odds are pretty evenly balanced,even an Elderly Lady in her Seventies can easily find a Man...In reality they just aren't interested prefer their Kids or Yappy Lap Dogs.
Looks scarcely like my ex..but that's not the pointCute young lady.
This is what jealousy looks like . When that (name luxury car brand) drives by every day and a man whose 6,4 with some expensive shades gets out..ALL of them would be interested at least..Here's some interesting comments:
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
It does, but not as loudly as it used to. The man in question is not just some regular "well to do" professional type with a six figure salary and a nice car. He is literally a multimillionaire. And the woman in question is not a supermodel. She is a 7, maybe 7.5.This is what i mean gentlemen. Money talks bs walks.