Dr Phil AFC!

[S0LID]

I was just watching dr phil, and there was this engaged guy who spent all his time on sports with friends and watching sports. Then he went on the show, and the after effect was this wussy, "I must attend to her needs" guy chump left! He said now he only watches 1 game a week, and hes completly under the 5th finger.

 

[Alpine]

Can't be, I've seen them in the same room and in any case her mustache is bigger than his.

I remember the last time I was of ill with the flu I was watching Oprah, 'cos Countdown was on next

Old Dr Phil's general advice on life and sh1t is pretty good and has that no sh1t straight talk approach.

But when it comes to blokes bangin birds he's not going to come out with the truth with two hundred fat munters in the audience is he?

I always thought he was the bloke out of Larry Sanders anyway.

 

[SpeedRunner]

I never liked Dr Phil... he has always been annoying

 

[DeathDealer]

Dr. Phil is a spinoff of Oprah productions. It's all self explanatory.

 

[thefonz]

he's good for motivating, not for helping guys get girls

 

[undesputable]

Dr. Phil is a ****ing queer. i cant stand that guy

 

[Alpine]

Originally posted by undesputable
Dr. Phil is a ****ing queer. i cant stand that guy

Oh, such anger, you need to get intouch with your inner child

 

[DJDamage]

Don't listen to Dr Phil on relationships. He tells couples in marriages that they should share their deepest thoughts, secrets and fears with each other and this will bond them closer together.

What a crock of ****! If you tell her all that she will think less of you and will use that against you. Most attractions occur on a subconscious level and women don't seem to understand that their interest level decreases if their men starts expressing their fears, faliures and negative attitude.

 

[DeathDealer]

Originally posted by DJDamage
Don't listen to Dr Phil on relationships. He tells couples in marriages that they should share their deepest thoughts, secrets and fears with each other and this will bond them closer together.

What a crock of ****! If you tell her all that she will think less of you and will use that against you. Most attractions occur on a subconscious level and women don't seem to understand that their interest level decreases if their men starts expressing their fears, faliures and negative attitude.

Actually this is good advice in marriages or long term relationships. Telling her that your mother was abusive or father was cold can tell her more about you and why you act the way you do. There's nothing wrong about that.

The only time when the interest level decreases is if you use your messed up background as a crutch or blameful reason why you act the way you do, or you act like a crybaby (My mother always made sweet cookies, you don't know how to cook!) then the interest level starts diving.

 

[MetalFortress]

Originally posted by DJDamage
Don't listen to Dr Phil on relationships. He tells couples in marriages that they should share their deepest thoughts, secrets and fears with each other and this will bond them closer together.

What a crock of ****! If you tell her all that she will think less of you and will use that against you. Most attractions occur on a subconscious level and women don't seem to understand that their interest level decreases if their men starts expressing their fears, faliures and negative attitude.

Oh wow. Chalk up another for the "will never have a fulfilling relationship" pile.

 

[MacDiddy]

Dr. Phil acts more like a family law court judge... based on the premise that no one is at fault initially...

He doesnt take into consideration the laws of attraction and he's so balanced that he doesn't factor in man's own intrinsic desires and programming...

 

[Jon E]

Originally posted by S0LID
I was just watching dr phil, and there was this engaged guy who spent all his time on sports with friends and watching sports. Then he went on the show, and the after effect was this wussy, "I must attend to her needs" guy chump left! He said now he only watches 1 game a week, and hes completly under the 5th finger.

Some of you guys on this site make it sound like spending time with someone that you care about somehow makes you less of a man. Just because you're "Attending to her needs" doesn't make you a chump either. If you're living with someone and planning on marrying them, its not going to kill you to sit down and talk to them for 5 minuets a day instead of sitting on your as$ and watching TV.

If you don't have time for a relationship, then don't be in one.

 

[xhikari]

it's ok to "Attend to her needs", spending time with her and all is ok, but wat's with that big change like watching 1 game in a week?
tat is completely wussy.
it's his interest and for him to do such a drastic change....OMFG he's a real wuss for that.

 

[whistler]

Jon E is right.

But "Dr." Phil is a dumbass.

There are many reasons why every real therapist or psychologist on the planet doesn't use his techniques...

 

[KillingTime]

Uhmm no thats B.S., some of you guys seriously take some of the stuff here way too far.... it's more power than you can handle.

Once you get into and have been in a long-term relationship for a while, the rules change...
You NEVER lose control of yourself and your emotions to your wife BUT, once you are at that point communication is a GOOD thing.... im not talking about crying like a little baby all the time to her, but just open, honest communication.

And sitting on your ass watching games all the time? That's pathetic! You are in a serious relationship, you have basically signed a contract... be a man and stick to it! A relationship is HARD work, if he wanted to sit on his ass watching TV all day he could have stayed single and just dated when he chose, I doubt anyone put a gun up to his head and forced him into a relationship.

 

[Francisco d'Anconia]

Yeah, people are so fvcked in the head nowadays, they can't handle the truth. That's why people tend to see therapists for years at a time, they can't handle reality in big chunks. Every wonder why so many people overindulge in drinking, eating or smoking?

 

[Dingus]

Someone close this thread. Dr. Phil should never be brought up in this forum nor any other that deals with REAL problems again. He's a ****ing quack.

 

[MacDiddy]

Its all Pschological BS.. People (everyone in the western world) think to much, analyse to much, compare to much...

... to the point where they think something is wrong and that therapy can help....

but then again... maybe I'm wrong!!!

Granted that when in a LTR, the dynamics may change a bit, but ideally, they shouldn't... Women need to fear their men - not in a way where they will get physcially hurt but in a way where they fear upsetting their guy or making him leave her.. This is what I call healthy fear that keeps her behaviour in check even into marriage... This fear is brought on by a hefty dose of respect....

obviously if a husband is a slouch and just sits on his arse all day watching footy, then a certain amount of respect "can" be lost... This is not good....

Once respect is lost, fear is lost and a women can become more bold and confronting when she feels she needs something.....

However, I've seen guys who are athletes and they need to spend heaps of time on sports etc.... and their GF were ok with it... if not supportive because a certain order was pre-established. I've seen soldiers who need to live on base and spend their time overseas on deployment with their spouses seemingly ok with it. Its not exactly a nice life being the spouse of these guys, having to spend time at home looking after everything on your own. but its ok...

In conclusion.....Its all about managing her relationship expectations and the guy that became a wuss, didn't pay much attention to it!!! Went on TV and got railroaded by Dr Phil and his smart arss solution packages...

 

[dietzcoi]

How can anybody on this site defend Dr. Phil?

His whole purpose is to make fat housewives feel good about themselves...

What that has to do with being a man (DJ) is beyond me..

His advice on quitting smoking, etc, is OK, but forget relationship advice.

He is just telling the fat viewers what THEY want to hear. That is how he survives!

He will never tell those women the truth about relationships! They do not want to hear it!

Dietzcoi

 

[InsidiousNstinct]

Begin quote" Dr. Phil is my hero." End quote