"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Dr. Beard, is scared, why don't you guys help him?

ethnomethodologist

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Seriously, he's an awesome troll, I know that, and he should learn to laugh, at what we THINK is really funny. I think he is such a lame man, that he comes onto this site, and tells us real stories, he REALLY want us to help him out, but WE (donjuan's to him, are acting like total losers) he's gone over to some website(conciousloving.com, do a member search for drbeard) and telling him his same problems over there.

From what I can tell, he's not turning into a cry baby half way through his threads, we think he's just being funny, but to them, they are being sweet, and making him happy. Over here, we are just being nice.

Come on everybody, let's give DrBeard, a nice big hug:cheer:
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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How about we just get rid of him? I hate trolls... even if they are funny.
 

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Does he even visit this site anymore? Whatever the case though, i agree.
 

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Originally posted by Soupar
Whatever the case though, i agree.
Agree to what? ban him? He's actually asking for help in the most screwed up way possible. Well no, being a serial killer, and leaving clues, is the worst, but I digress.

I was saying give him a big hug, help the guy out, that other site just showed us how stupid we really are. If you don't agree, you should be sorry for yourself, and than punch yourself in the face, say it's from me.
 

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No, I was agreeing with you dude.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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