"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Dr. Beard, is scared, why don't you guys help him?

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Seriously, he's an awesome troll, I know that, and he should learn to laugh, at what we THINK is really funny. I think he is such a lame man, that he comes onto this site, and tells us real stories, he REALLY want us to help him out, but WE (donjuan's to him, are acting like total losers) he's gone over to some website(conciousloving.com, do a member search for drbeard) and telling him his same problems over there.

From what I can tell, he's not turning into a cry baby half way through his threads, we think he's just being funny, but to them, they are being sweet, and making him happy. Over here, we are just being nice.

Come on everybody, let's give DrBeard, a nice big hug:cheer:
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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How about we just get rid of him? I hate trolls... even if they are funny.
 

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Does he even visit this site anymore? Whatever the case though, i agree.
 

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Originally posted by Soupar
Whatever the case though, i agree.
Agree to what? ban him? He's actually asking for help in the most screwed up way possible. Well no, being a serial killer, and leaving clues, is the worst, but I digress.

I was saying give him a big hug, help the guy out, that other site just showed us how stupid we really are. If you don't agree, you should be sorry for yourself, and than punch yourself in the face, say it's from me.
 

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No, I was agreeing with you dude.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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