"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Dr. Beard, is scared, why don't you guys help him?

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Seriously, he's an awesome troll, I know that, and he should learn to laugh, at what we THINK is really funny. I think he is such a lame man, that he comes onto this site, and tells us real stories, he REALLY want us to help him out, but WE (donjuan's to him, are acting like total losers) he's gone over to some website(conciousloving.com, do a member search for drbeard) and telling him his same problems over there.

From what I can tell, he's not turning into a cry baby half way through his threads, we think he's just being funny, but to them, they are being sweet, and making him happy. Over here, we are just being nice.

Come on everybody, let's give DrBeard, a nice big hug:cheer:
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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How about we just get rid of him? I hate trolls... even if they are funny.
 
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Does he even visit this site anymore? Whatever the case though, i agree.
 
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Originally posted by Soupar
Whatever the case though, i agree.
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Agree to what? ban him? He's actually asking for help in the most screwed up way possible. Well no, being a serial killer, and leaving clues, is the worst, but I digress.

I was saying give him a big hug, help the guy out, that other site just showed us how stupid we really are. If you don't agree, you should be sorry for yourself, and than punch yourself in the face, say it's from me.
 
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No, I was agreeing with you dude.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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