"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Dr. Beard, is scared, why don't you guys help him?

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Seriously, he's an awesome troll, I know that, and he should learn to laugh, at what we THINK is really funny. I think he is such a lame man, that he comes onto this site, and tells us real stories, he REALLY want us to help him out, but WE (donjuan's to him, are acting like total losers) he's gone over to some website(conciousloving.com, do a member search for drbeard) and telling him his same problems over there.

From what I can tell, he's not turning into a cry baby half way through his threads, we think he's just being funny, but to them, they are being sweet, and making him happy. Over here, we are just being nice.

Come on everybody, let's give DrBeard, a nice big hug:cheer:
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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How about we just get rid of him? I hate trolls... even if they are funny.
 

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Does he even visit this site anymore? Whatever the case though, i agree.
 

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Originally posted by Soupar
Whatever the case though, i agree.
Agree to what? ban him? He's actually asking for help in the most screwed up way possible. Well no, being a serial killer, and leaving clues, is the worst, but I digress.

I was saying give him a big hug, help the guy out, that other site just showed us how stupid we really are. If you don't agree, you should be sorry for yourself, and than punch yourself in the face, say it's from me.
 

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No, I was agreeing with you dude.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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