CP3WOO
Don Juan
Ok...I'm going to make this short and sweet. My friend wants to know how to approach twins. He asked me and I had no f'n clue. Any suggestions?
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
I dunno...just talk to them I guess. Ask them how long they've been twinsCP3WOO said:Ok...I'm going to make this short and sweet. My friend wants to know how to approach twins. He asked me and I had no f'n clue. Any suggestions?
That's actually pretty funny. Might work. Girls like funnyguywhoneedshelp said:I dunno...just talk to them I guess. Ask them how long they've been twins
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
I like that one, and the 'whos the naughty one.' This is interesting, cuz my favorite watering hole just hired two good looking sisters. Im partial to one, but I'd take the other one too, so I just talk to both of them. I havent learned if they take each others "hand me downs" though, but its on the agenda!guywhoneedshelp said:Ask them how long they've been twins