I trying to lighten things up a bit, if I focus too much on things right now it's too difficult for me. I don't feel like giving up jet.. somehow I love that d**b girl, and I cannot control her. Yes stupid games, but what can I do? My head is not made for things like this, that why I gather idèas from this forum. Once in a while advise from others is helpful, and gives extra confidence. I only want to be a medium a**, not an a hole.. venting and talking hearing opinions is good right now. No female comes without drama, some are worse than others. In times of crisis, extra ordenary steps can be a tool. Or complete waste of time an effort. Any recomendations?
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mrgoodstuff
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So here you are. Due to your choice your basically single. I dont know how strong your man ***** is but now is a time it can rightfully come out. Dont hope for her to adjust her behaviors. Teach her a lesson for ALL mankind.
No I'm just in a weird relationship, she is working massage, which is a profession that should be reserved for single women and swingers. If we had a long lasting strong marriage it might be okay, or if she looked really really nasty
but she don't.. you need more trust than normal relationship's to do this. And both agree on this choice. No matter how many dogs you kick, or how hard. They are never going to learn collectively..
The hamster wheel's is just going to rationalize this no matter what we do.. they always do.
Now she is working with like minded, and take their opinions, the hive mind..
There is no winning a rigged game, sorry mate
What do you purpose?
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People aren’t programable robots. If you have to turn into an a**hole just to get a desired outcome from a girl, that girl is not for you.
I’m coming from a place and perhaps an age where I personally don’t have the interest, time or patience in unnessary drama. Ever read the book The Art of Not Giving a F**k? It’s a good read basically stating that in life we only have so may f**ks to give, so give them wisely lol.
So if you want to waste all of your f**ks in what sounds to me like an immature relationship, that’s your choice and you have to own it.
But if you want my advice I think a girl who respects you and whose values align more closely with yours is a better option than trying to change your current gf when people don’t truly change their fundamental selves.
mrgoodstuff
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Drop her and find a compatable woman. Sorry that her herd supports her bull.No I'm just in a weird relationship, she is working massage, which is a profession that should be reserved for single women and swingers. If we had a long lasting strong marriage it might be okay, or if she looked really really nasty
No matter how many dogs you kick, or how hard. They are never going to learn collectively..
The hamster wheel's is just going to rationalize this no matter what we do.. they always do.
Now she is working with like minded, and take their opinions, the hive mind..
There is no winning a rigged game, sorry mate
What do you purpose?
So the like mind is her coworkers? Or is it her friends?
Just because a woman listens to you and acts interested in what you say doesn't mean she really is. She might just be acting polite, while silently wishing that the date would hurry up and end, or that you would go away... and never come back.
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Coworkers..
Women don't like each other, but always agree on their bull collectively.
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mrgoodstuff
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Oh you know it. Especially if that bull is trashing a man out.
She comes home and pass out on the sofa, bc its a tough job, very physical demanding.. groping strangers all day. Not for everybody
[QUOTE="mrgoodstuff, post: Especially if that bull is trashing a man out.
Yes that is the nr 1 thing that gets the chicken's talking together. Sure there is detailed battle plan already.
[QUOTE="mrgoodstuff, post: Especially if that bull is trashing a man out.
Yes that is the nr 1 thing that gets the chicken's talking together. Sure there is detailed battle plan already.
mrgoodstuff
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Thats why complaining and just taking it looks so weak. Imagine what the chicken heads will be saying when your pounding a fine babe.
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Send her back to the kitchen to make sandwiches or next her.
What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.
You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.
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There are always double standards with the ladies these days. Even so more when dealing with inter-personal relationships.
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Its why men need to be cautious with workplace shenanigans. They will troll or cause dramas before facilitating delusions. The hen house will manufacture nonsensical crap. Its why pence rules are gospel.
Things are just complicated in today's world.. jealousy is bad and controlling if a man does it. For women it's cute because they care.. too many kids is living with non biological farther's where the female banged chad, in the ovulation period. Hypergamy is rampage and women own 80% divorce.
And I complain because this hypergamus creature, gropes nude chad and tyrone all week long.
I understand what you guys say; put my foot down. Stop complaining and go my own way..
I don't like to give up, I'm no quitter.
Sure I put women out the door before, and one I carried outside gently, put her down closed and lock the door.. because she go batshyte c....
At this age, the left over women, is exactly what they are called, for a reason. hypocritically speaking, the next one will surpass its predecessor by a margine. It's a numbers game. The unicorn is extinct a long time ago
Where have all the real ladies gone?
mouse utopia experiment proof
We are f'ed as a species..
And I complain because this hypergamus creature, gropes nude chad and tyrone all week long.
I understand what you guys say; put my foot down. Stop complaining and go my own way..
I don't like to give up, I'm no quitter.
Sure I put women out the door before, and one I carried outside gently, put her down closed and lock the door.. because she go batshyte c....
At this age, the left over women, is exactly what they are called, for a reason. hypocritically speaking, the next one will surpass its predecessor by a margine. It's a numbers game. The unicorn is extinct a long time ago
Where have all the real ladies gone?
mouse utopia experiment proof
We are f'ed as a species..
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Rubbing equality in her face, and go for 6'y lady massage, has made an impression, I know..
At night she ask with worried eyes where have you been today
Somethings made her feeling, and thinking.. but no changes yet. And properly not anytime soon.
I gave her reading about hypergamy and female nature. She confirmed. So wishfull thinking is she understand her urges.
Even tough fact are;
Women are overgrown children. Even when they display signs of adulthood
At night she ask with worried eyes where have you been today
Somethings made her feeling, and thinking.. but no changes yet. And properly not anytime soon.
I gave her reading about hypergamy and female nature. She confirmed. So wishfull thinking is she understand her urges.
Even tough fact are;
Women are overgrown children. Even when they display signs of adulthood
Crazy isn't it? My wife was actually going to a male personal trainer, I called bull, we argued and as far as I know, she stopped going to him. Why in the hell would I pay for some guy to have his hands all over her when I don't get to put my hands on her?
If you currently have too many women chasing you, calling you, harassing you, knocking on your door at 2 o'clock in the morning... then I have the simple solution for you.
Just read my free ebook 22 Rules for Massive Success With Women and do the opposite of what I recommend.
This will quickly drive all women away from you.
And you will be able to relax and to live your life in peace and quiet.
You cannot touch your own wife? That's what's marriage is.. f me!
It's perfectly normal to protect the one you love from intimacy with others.
If you sit in a bar touching another woman all over the body, surely people would tell your wife because your'e a pig.. it's simple people in normal relationship cannot do that.
What part of this is so difficult to understand. Job, a trainer, party, drunk, same shyte, a big NO NO
That goes for women and men alike
Well, let's say our intimacy levels are pretty low. We haven't had sex in almost 2 months now. Of course, it's always all my fault. I work too late, she's not happy with my behavior, she doesn't feel close to me, of course it could never by anything she does. I buy her flowers, open doors, do all kinds of nice sh*t but somehow, it's never enough. I'd go out and get some one the side but honestly, I don't know where I'd ever find the time. Between family and work, there's just not that much time to go out and do anything else. I've got 4 meetings today and all of my regular work. When do I find time to go out and game chicks into bed? Honestly, if I knew some good, quality, clean hookers, the thought would definitely cross my mind.
I'm not going to sit here and b*tch, it is what it is. But I'll be dammed if she's going to go out and have some guy's hands all over her and I'm going to meekly accept it. I'll got to the mat on that one.
This happens too much in marriage.. sad
Make deals with her, bargain, ex. buy a set of 6'y lingerie and arrange a night without kids, after surprise her with this gift, and say she/you/family can do x she want, if she eat dinner and watches fifty shades of grey, all night only dressed in this. Its a challange to her, and put's fun games back in to the marriage. It's worth a try... and cheaper too
I get plenty on that front, so no problem there. I do all nights since she started this disgusting job. She said this morning her thingy had pain, and maybe needed a break, I said okay we see tonight. She don't go working this, hungry
mrgoodstuff
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Buy her flowers do all this nice chit for what? Is she doing it for you? Your in a common position where the wife is no longer pleasing her husband nor does she care. In an effort to communicate his love the husband bends over backwards for her, doing all this extra to "make her happy " and she sees right thru it. The problem at the core is her DESIRE is non existent. On the power level she knows she has you trapped. She knows she doesnt want to fvck you and there's nothing you can do about it. How do you get past that? Can you do anything which rekindles desire and need? What if the entire seduction was to secure a dependable husband and to have the 1 or 2 kids. What if there was never love?
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Everything you’re posting about her makes me think she’s going to leave you.
She doesn’t want you, doesn’t feel close to you, and is now going to a personal trainer to get in shape.
Not trying to make you paranoid but from a female perspective I would not be surprised if she’s getting ready to leave.
And you are deciding to stick around becuase you don’t want to be raped in court and you don’t want to be a part time dad (according to your posts). That’s admirable, you seem like a good Dad but you’re also a human being with feelings.
Yes if you leave her, you will have to deal with family court and potentially be a part time Dad.
But if she leaves you, you will still have to deal with family court and potentially being a part time dad.
Wouldn’t it be better to end things more on your terms rather than hers? Which way will make you feel worse?
Don’t want to derail the thread but I just want to give you a bit of a female take on your situation. My apologies if I stepped too far, but I’ve been in an unhappy marriage before so I can relate a bit.
If you currently have too many women chasing you, calling you, harassing you, knocking on your door at 2 o'clock in the morning... then I have the simple solution for you.
Just read my free ebook 22 Rules for Massive Success With Women and do the opposite of what I recommend.
This will quickly drive all women away from you.
And you will be able to relax and to live your life in peace and quiet.