"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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my last gf loved it when i kissed her on the neck....it' some good stuff


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"Pimp that shiot, it don't matter"
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Works great too when you're behind her.

Though, I don't know why it's called 'doggie' since it's cats that do the neck bit.

Take care


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"Insignificant events can take on monumental proportions
when your head is full of practically nothing" - Grace Slick -
 

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i actually tried this the other nite... its pretty good. I used to ram my tongue in a girls mouth when we started making out.

That was what i was used to since my ex was always agressive.


But its critical to start out slow, maybe even slower than her. Tease her a bit And then build up from there.

stupid me! ha!
 

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boot camp bump
 

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Originally posted by Wyldfire
Okay, let's face it...how you kiss a woman can either make or break your image in her eyes. You can use this simple technique to sweep a woman off her feet and double her interest level in you. Use this technique wisely and only on women you want to really fall for you. Don't use it on someone you don't want to keep around or you'll never get rid of her.

When you go in for the kiss, put your hands on her neck and very gently caress her. Start the kiss off softly, still gently stroking her neck, and running your fingers through her hair at the nape of her neck. Very softly and slowly part her lips with your tongue. Don't put your tongue too far into her mouth...just a little bit in and work it very slowly and without much pressure. A kiss like this makes a woman weak in the knees. Save the hard passionate kisses for later on down the line. Use this more erotic kind of kiss to keep her thinking of you until you see her again.
Very good tip. I tried it out and it WORKS.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Originally posted by IrReSiStIbLe
Great technique dude! ;) i'll try it out next time i go to a club:D
By the way... this is my first post...!
I can tell, you called Wyld a dude...
 

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Originally posted by Nicholas Hill
I can tell, you called Wyld a dude...
Well, he's not the first to make that mistake and won't likely be the last.

You'd think the screen name would be a dead giveaway...
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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The back of the neck is the perfect place to touch while giving a kiss. A very sensitive area, so touch with little pressure! Most girls have very fine neck hair, and if sweep your finger tips against those hairs, it will give her chills. She will think about you for days afterward.
 

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when u saw hands on neck , does it have to be both hands or can ur other be else where ? and when u say work it very slowly without much pressure , do u want to concentrate on just the tongue or still the whole mouth ?
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Well my technique of gently licking and massaging every part of her tongue with my tongue while kissing has always worked:D
 

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What i do is this... When i kiss i put my hand(palm) on her cheek, then go for a soft kiss, little tongue then slide my hand slowly from her cheek right onto to the side of her neck then and then to the back(nape) and gently rub/kinda ticke the back of her neck. Kinda make little soft slow circles on the back of her neck while kissing softly. Then i've also found slowly tracing your tongue along her upper lip then back into the kiss works well to. Two of the girls i slept with last week both loved that.
 

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Originally posted by smack_roscoe
I kiss my GF on the back of her neck after lifting up her hair and she starts to squirm as soon as my lips touch her skin. She has to stop me cause of all the goosebumps she gets. Works every time.
I remember doing that too with an ex, she would often just grab me and pash me hard and would want to get me home as asap, or just the slightest nibble on her ear.;)
 

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really nice tip works to well ok for those that asked some of these questions nape is where hair and neck connect and yes the next is a real good kino area(i personally don't know how your gonna get neck involved in conversation but if u do more power to ya) and i would use both hands if possable for ya one should be against neck thou forsure the other maybe around her or holding her face, i personally use one hand to run thru her hair other caressing her neck
 

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I am a huge fan of grabbing her butt cheeks in my hands and pulling her close as im passionately make out with her.

However, for first kisses im going to give this a try.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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