Double Dating

[Ashigaru]

GSP and I each closed on a number of 2 females who are friends. GSP and I were thinking about having a double date, but here's the dilemma:

If one person calls and sets something up, his value is lowered if he asked her to bring her friend along, showing that he can't go out on a date by himself.

If both call at the same time, it seems set up and also conveys DLV.

We both feel that the double date will be good if we can get it, because since we know each other really good we can make a lot of convo, from there we can try to isolate.

The question is: Who calls?

 

[Phyzzle]

Each of you call his chick, asks her to the same place at the same time.

If one chick can't make it then, then don't worry about double dating. It's not so great. More like for married/engaged couples.

 

[Latinoman]

Don't double date for the first date. Not even the first few dates!

Sends the wrong signal. It makes you guys look like you need each other for support...like two teenager girls. It would also put pressure on the girls...one of them might want to get laid, and might hold it back because of the lack of privacy and peer pressure.

I mean...what's the point? What do you win with it? You lose a LOT more too.

 

[Desdinova]

Don't double date for the first date. Not even the first few dates!

Agreed. For at least the first few dates, focus your full attention on each other instead of on a group. Double dates cause distraction, and it will slow down your progress with her. Wait until you've been dating her a while before you hang out with friends.

 

[Vulpine]

Don't double date for the first date. Not even the first few dates! I mean...what's the point? What do you win with it? You lose a LOT more too.

Uh, unless you are setting them up for the swap. Hmm... freakiness.

I agree, unless you are swingers, too many chefs spoil the soup.