Dont' say...

[The Bartender]

In response to questions, or in basically any situation you find yourself in, don't say these words:

"I don't know".

Those three words, no matter the situation, lower your status. This may give another person the opportunity to become Alpha of the group with thier response. Saying "I dont know" in a situation where you're attempting to pick up a girl may lead to a rejection because she'll view you as either not confident enough to say what you really want to say or stupid because you havent thought about what you "dont know".

My advice: if you really "dont know". State facts and jump around the actual opinionated response. They'll (whoever asked) will counter with thier opinion and some more facts. Now you have enough to form your own view.

 

[biker_gixxer]

Good point. Thanks for the tip.

 

[Lifeforce]

If you actually have some kind of political debate or state opinions climate then you have a bad environment for picking up chicks.

And if you worry about what the girl may think about you if you do not know what to think about something then you just try to prove yourself to her. I mean, if she is somewhat interested, that little thing wont **** up the game.

Say "Tell me more and I'll say what I think about it" or sim.

 

[The Bartender]

Originally posted by Lifeforce
If you actually have some kind of political debate or state opinions climate then you have a bad environment for picking up chicks.

I'm not just talking about debates. I mean anything. Example, I'm a bartender. A lot of times women will come up during the night and say "What's a good shot?". Now $hit, I know an endless amount of drinks. But if I said, "I dont know, what do you like?" They'd think less of me. So usually I say "Do you like candy?".....(their response) " Yeah me too". And I make one hell of a shot. Much better than "I dont know, what do you like" This is just an example I'm sure not everyone is in my shoes here.

 

[NRM]

For sure. This is a good tip. Sometimes when I hear other people talk and a female asks a guy a question he'll answer kind of strangely like

Guy: I don't know, sometimes I like to go fishing

Or whatevers.

Instead he could have just came out and said

Guy: Sometimes I like to go fishing.

Leaving the "I don't know" out makes everything you say seem more confident. Now with questions, saying "I don't know" sometimes even kills the conversation. Never say it. Let her know there's nothing you can't handle of it has to be that way, but never tell her that you don't know something.

Good tip.