"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Don't rate girls on the 1-10 scale....

Belmar2009

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As someone else mentioned on this forum months ago, assigning a number to a chick (especially a high number) is just going to put her on a pedestal more. THis is true especially if you are not as attractive.

Simply put, a girl/woman is either attractive or she is not.

Ugly and mediocre looking girls= NOT ATTRACTIVE

Cute and Hot girls= ATTRACTIVE


Since beauty is more objective, than subjective, most men will be close in their agreements who is attractive and who is not attractive.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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It's true :)
 

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Hey all nerds, geeks, spongebobs, goobers and other members..

Don't rate chicks,, Just simply put:

A Girl I'd f*ck.

or

A Girl I wouldn't f*ck...

BTW... Your HB10 is HB3 on my scale... and my HB10 is probably your HB4.. I go for slightly fat chicks, and old....twice my age... Someone YOU dweebs can't handle...
 

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I kind of like the binary scale that you suggest, dividing girls up into doable and not doable. No more needs be said.

However, to be honest, it really isn't that simple. There are cute girls, pretty girls, beautiful girls, girls that can really mess you up with their looks if you let your guard down, girls that give you a huge ego boost if you have them on your arm, girls that every guy will staring at no matter where you go, etc. So the 1-10 scale probably is more accurate.
 

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zekko said:
I kind of like the binary scale that you suggest, dividing girls up into doable and not doable. No more needs be said.

However, to be honest, it really isn't that simple. There are cute girls, pretty girls, beautiful girls, girls that can really mess you up with their looks if you let your guard down, girls that give you a huge ego boost if you have them on your arm, girls that every guy will staring at no matter where you go, etc. So the 1-10 scale probably is more accurate.

I also think this assessment is true:

Only a small percentage of women (under 35) are ugly and only a small percentage are "strikingly" beautiful. Most fall between the two extremes with the majority of this group being on the good-looking, cute side.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Solomon

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I agree you see a girl u think she is a "10"
you put her on that pedestal and sub-conciusly psyche yourself out

There are four scales

Hell yes--with no rubber (this is ajoke)

Yes--I'd bang with the swiftnes of 10 samura's

maybe--depending on how many drinks,

no--hell naw
 

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You shouldn't rate a woman ever on a numerical scale.

Either SHE is for YOU, or she IS NOT.

You find out after you approach, TALK TO THEM, and see if she's
really what you made her out to be.
 

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kingy said:
you will rate girls on their looks, you cant stop this, you want to replicate best you can.

important thing is to feel entitled. thats why im a 10 ;)

Indeed. I don't care what rating they are because I know I'm good enough for anybody.


Also keep in mind that even though some girls are good looking it doesn't mean they're mentally alright.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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