"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Don't rate girls on the 1-10 scale....

Belmar2009

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As someone else mentioned on this forum months ago, assigning a number to a chick (especially a high number) is just going to put her on a pedestal more. THis is true especially if you are not as attractive.

Simply put, a girl/woman is either attractive or she is not.

Ugly and mediocre looking girls= NOT ATTRACTIVE

Cute and Hot girls= ATTRACTIVE


Since beauty is more objective, than subjective, most men will be close in their agreements who is attractive and who is not attractive.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Masked_angel

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It's true :)
 

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Hey all nerds, geeks, spongebobs, goobers and other members..

Don't rate chicks,, Just simply put:

A Girl I'd f*ck.

or

A Girl I wouldn't f*ck...

BTW... Your HB10 is HB3 on my scale... and my HB10 is probably your HB4.. I go for slightly fat chicks, and old....twice my age... Someone YOU dweebs can't handle...
 

zekko

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I kind of like the binary scale that you suggest, dividing girls up into doable and not doable. No more needs be said.

However, to be honest, it really isn't that simple. There are cute girls, pretty girls, beautiful girls, girls that can really mess you up with their looks if you let your guard down, girls that give you a huge ego boost if you have them on your arm, girls that every guy will staring at no matter where you go, etc. So the 1-10 scale probably is more accurate.
 

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zekko said:
I kind of like the binary scale that you suggest, dividing girls up into doable and not doable. No more needs be said.

However, to be honest, it really isn't that simple. There are cute girls, pretty girls, beautiful girls, girls that can really mess you up with their looks if you let your guard down, girls that give you a huge ego boost if you have them on your arm, girls that every guy will staring at no matter where you go, etc. So the 1-10 scale probably is more accurate.

I also think this assessment is true:

Only a small percentage of women (under 35) are ugly and only a small percentage are "strikingly" beautiful. Most fall between the two extremes with the majority of this group being on the good-looking, cute side.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Solomon

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I agree you see a girl u think she is a "10"
you put her on that pedestal and sub-conciusly psyche yourself out

There are four scales

Hell yes--with no rubber (this is ajoke)

Yes--I'd bang with the swiftnes of 10 samura's

maybe--depending on how many drinks,

no--hell naw
 

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You shouldn't rate a woman ever on a numerical scale.

Either SHE is for YOU, or she IS NOT.

You find out after you approach, TALK TO THEM, and see if she's
really what you made her out to be.
 

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kingy said:
you will rate girls on their looks, you cant stop this, you want to replicate best you can.

important thing is to feel entitled. thats why im a 10 ;)

Indeed. I don't care what rating they are because I know I'm good enough for anybody.


Also keep in mind that even though some girls are good looking it doesn't mean they're mentally alright.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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