"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Don't rate girls on the 1-10 scale....

Belmar2009

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As someone else mentioned on this forum months ago, assigning a number to a chick (especially a high number) is just going to put her on a pedestal more. THis is true especially if you are not as attractive.

Simply put, a girl/woman is either attractive or she is not.

Ugly and mediocre looking girls= NOT ATTRACTIVE

Cute and Hot girls= ATTRACTIVE


Since beauty is more objective, than subjective, most men will be close in their agreements who is attractive and who is not attractive.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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It's true :)
 

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Hey all nerds, geeks, spongebobs, goobers and other members..

Don't rate chicks,, Just simply put:

A Girl I'd f*ck.

or

A Girl I wouldn't f*ck...

BTW... Your HB10 is HB3 on my scale... and my HB10 is probably your HB4.. I go for slightly fat chicks, and old....twice my age... Someone YOU dweebs can't handle...
 

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I kind of like the binary scale that you suggest, dividing girls up into doable and not doable. No more needs be said.

However, to be honest, it really isn't that simple. There are cute girls, pretty girls, beautiful girls, girls that can really mess you up with their looks if you let your guard down, girls that give you a huge ego boost if you have them on your arm, girls that every guy will staring at no matter where you go, etc. So the 1-10 scale probably is more accurate.
 

Belmar2009

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zekko said:
I kind of like the binary scale that you suggest, dividing girls up into doable and not doable. No more needs be said.

However, to be honest, it really isn't that simple. There are cute girls, pretty girls, beautiful girls, girls that can really mess you up with their looks if you let your guard down, girls that give you a huge ego boost if you have them on your arm, girls that every guy will staring at no matter where you go, etc. So the 1-10 scale probably is more accurate.

I also think this assessment is true:

Only a small percentage of women (under 35) are ugly and only a small percentage are "strikingly" beautiful. Most fall between the two extremes with the majority of this group being on the good-looking, cute side.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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I agree you see a girl u think she is a "10"
you put her on that pedestal and sub-conciusly psyche yourself out

There are four scales

Hell yes--with no rubber (this is ajoke)

Yes--I'd bang with the swiftnes of 10 samura's

maybe--depending on how many drinks,

no--hell naw
 

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You shouldn't rate a woman ever on a numerical scale.

Either SHE is for YOU, or she IS NOT.

You find out after you approach, TALK TO THEM, and see if she's
really what you made her out to be.
 

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kingy said:
you will rate girls on their looks, you cant stop this, you want to replicate best you can.

important thing is to feel entitled. thats why im a 10 ;)

Indeed. I don't care what rating they are because I know I'm good enough for anybody.


Also keep in mind that even though some girls are good looking it doesn't mean they're mentally alright.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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