"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Don't make a big deal out of female beauty.

Belmar2009

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Why make a big deal out of something that is quite common.

Attractive looking women are everywhere.

Go to the gym/mall/bar/club and there will be more pretty young women than not so pretty young women 9 times out of ten.

Making a big deal out of beauty puts the woman on a pedestal and makes you feel inferior.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Tassilo

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Geat wisdom! It should be that simple, but unfortunatels it's not...
 

Weezy

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Another tip..

If you really like a chick, don't let her know it cause then she'll know she has you.
 

BigJimbo

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Belmar2009 said:
Why make a big deal out of something that is quite common.

Attractive looking women are everywhere.

Go to the gym/mall/bar/club and there will be more pretty young women than not so pretty young women 9 times out of ten.

Making a big deal out of beauty puts the woman on a pedestal and makes you feel inferior.
Where do you live? Ukraine, Russia, Latvia? In America female beauty is very rare. No wonder so many American guys are so damn horny. In most American gyms most of the males are gay and most of the females are not so young. Hell, in America you have to be 21 to even get into a a club. Hell on earth if you are a straight man.
 

SoldMySoul

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The OP has it figured it out actually!!! There are tons of hot women out there, but inner beauty to match their outer beauty is a miracle!!! If you find both, you better grab her like she is a Leprechaun leading you to his hidden gold.

I just finished eating at a local Italian restaurant and saw the one that makes guys grovel at her feet. She had her fake breasts hanging out from the top of her shirt, bleach blonde hair and perfect body and nails. I will go on a limb and basically say I bet she is dog a$$ ugly on the inside. I could be wrong, but I betcha I am not!!

When I saw I gave her a quick look and stopped there! I am sure has AFCs stare holes right through her, but I am not the guy! She has to show me a lot more than her outer self.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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