"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Don't make a big deal out of female beauty.

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Why make a big deal out of something that is quite common.

Attractive looking women are everywhere.

Go to the gym/mall/bar/club and there will be more pretty young women than not so pretty young women 9 times out of ten.

Making a big deal out of beauty puts the woman on a pedestal and makes you feel inferior.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Geat wisdom! It should be that simple, but unfortunatels it's not...
 
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Another tip..

If you really like a chick, don't let her know it cause then she'll know she has you.
 
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Belmar2009 said:
Why make a big deal out of something that is quite common.

Attractive looking women are everywhere.

Go to the gym/mall/bar/club and there will be more pretty young women than not so pretty young women 9 times out of ten.

Making a big deal out of beauty puts the woman on a pedestal and makes you feel inferior.
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Where do you live? Ukraine, Russia, Latvia? In America female beauty is very rare. No wonder so many American guys are so damn horny. In most American gyms most of the males are gay and most of the females are not so young. Hell, in America you have to be 21 to even get into a a club. Hell on earth if you are a straight man.
 
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The OP has it figured it out actually!!! There are tons of hot women out there, but inner beauty to match their outer beauty is a miracle!!! If you find both, you better grab her like she is a Leprechaun leading you to his hidden gold.

I just finished eating at a local Italian restaurant and saw the one that makes guys grovel at her feet. She had her fake breasts hanging out from the top of her shirt, bleach blonde hair and perfect body and nails. I will go on a limb and basically say I bet she is dog a$$ ugly on the inside. I could be wrong, but I betcha I am not!!

When I saw I gave her a quick look and stopped there! I am sure has AFCs stare holes right through her, but I am not the guy! She has to show me a lot more than her outer self.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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