"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Don't make a big deal out of female beauty.

Belmar2009

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Why make a big deal out of something that is quite common.

Attractive looking women are everywhere.

Go to the gym/mall/bar/club and there will be more pretty young women than not so pretty young women 9 times out of ten.

Making a big deal out of beauty puts the woman on a pedestal and makes you feel inferior.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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Tassilo

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Geat wisdom! It should be that simple, but unfortunatels it's not...
 

Weezy

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Another tip..

If you really like a chick, don't let her know it cause then she'll know she has you.
 

BigJimbo

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Belmar2009 said:
Why make a big deal out of something that is quite common.

Attractive looking women are everywhere.

Go to the gym/mall/bar/club and there will be more pretty young women than not so pretty young women 9 times out of ten.

Making a big deal out of beauty puts the woman on a pedestal and makes you feel inferior.
Where do you live? Ukraine, Russia, Latvia? In America female beauty is very rare. No wonder so many American guys are so damn horny. In most American gyms most of the males are gay and most of the females are not so young. Hell, in America you have to be 21 to even get into a a club. Hell on earth if you are a straight man.
 

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The OP has it figured it out actually!!! There are tons of hot women out there, but inner beauty to match their outer beauty is a miracle!!! If you find both, you better grab her like she is a Leprechaun leading you to his hidden gold.

I just finished eating at a local Italian restaurant and saw the one that makes guys grovel at her feet. She had her fake breasts hanging out from the top of her shirt, bleach blonde hair and perfect body and nails. I will go on a limb and basically say I bet she is dog a$$ ugly on the inside. I could be wrong, but I betcha I am not!!

When I saw I gave her a quick look and stopped there! I am sure has AFCs stare holes right through her, but I am not the guy! She has to show me a lot more than her outer self.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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