Don't let this stuff consume you.

[TheBossman]

Who are the rodents in this case?

Perhaps the individual with the screen name "Squirrels"?

 

[Desdinova]

In response to this statement someone made- Yes- we are happily married and he has told me to no end how embarrased he is of ever taking part of this rediculous masogonistic site.(Think about it, if you have to take the advice of people you dont know who prolly dont know anything themselves, then wouldnt it be better to make your own mistakes and learn from them than listen to what someone else is making up and dispensing at YOUR expense? this place is a joke- take it from a hot, succesfeul woman who has always had her pick- and I picked squirells, who knows as much about women as 99% of you do about brain surgery, LOL... The fake person he was on here is nothing like the man I married. All you guys who want to get women do yourselves a favor and get off the computer and get a real life not hiding behind a computer, askig others hiding behind a computer for advice. maybe then you can find some happiness....Most of these people on here dipensing advice may as well be virgins, dont be fooled, this place will only make a lonely disillusined fool of you......the fact that he has never been back to this ses pool speaks volumes- peace

Out of sheer curiosity, I decided to see if this was indeed Squirrels wife, or if it was a troll.

It checked out. Squirrels is married to this woman.

 

[( . )( . )]

Out of sheer curiosity, I decided to see if this was indeed Squirrels wife, or if it was a troll.

It checked out. Squirrels is married to this woman.

The lack of introspection (COZ MASOGINNNY!) aside and I'm no spelling nazi but the sheer ineptitude to spell basic words shows this squirrels is on to a real winner. Then again from what I remember of the dude he never struck me as particularly game savvy. Too much navel gazing and "who am I" self identity crisis fem-thinking bullsh!t. That's an outsiders 100% unbiased opinion btw. I barely read a squirrels post, much like backbreakers crap it just became white noise toward the end for me anyway.

 

[Atom Smasher]

Mrs. Squirrels is correct. I am a virgin.

 

[BeDJ]

Holy sh!t. I wonder what made squirrels evewn suggest to his wife sosuave.net. It's almost as if he is throwing us under the bus just to show he has 'overcame the dark side.' I don't blame him for pursuing happiness, but dude....

Marriage must be on the rocks...

 

[Desdinova]

He's just doing what I did when I got married; being 100% honest about everything. Letting my ex-wife know that Sosuave existed was a huge mistake. Letting my ex-best friend know Sosuave existed was a huge mistake too. Unless the person is already well-versed in the subjects discussed here, I tell nobody about it. This forum rubs most outsiders the wrong way, especially women. We appear as bitter misogynists.

 

[Atom Smasher]

"Maybe after his epiphany he is now a happily married man with two children and a gorgeous wife who loves him...respects him...and tends to all his needs. Way to go squirrel!!!!!"
In response to this statement someone made- Yes- we are happily married and he has told me to no end how embarrased he is of ever taking part of this rediculous masogonistic site.(Think about it, if you have to take the advice of people you dont know who prolly dont know anything themselves, then wouldnt it be better to make your own mistakes and learn from them than listen to what someone else is making up and dispensing at YOUR expense? this place is a joke- take it from a hot, succesfeul woman who has always had her pick- and I picked squirells, who knows as much about women as 99% of you do about brain surgery, LOL... The fake person he was on here is nothing like the man I married. All you guys who want to get women do yourselves a favor and get off the computer and get a real life not hiding behind a computer, askig others hiding behind a computer for advice. maybe then you can find some happiness....Most of these people on here dipensing advice may as well be virgins, dont be fooled, this place will only make a lonely disillusined fool of you......the fact that he has never been back to this ses pool speaks volumes- peace

Now I'm confused, Mrs. Squirrels... Before SS I was absolutely clueless about women and seriously lonely.

Now, 7 years later, I'm in high demand and am approached by women to the point of mild annoyance. I'm able to pick & choose whom I want to be with, and these are quality women, no ONS for me. This part of my life has been handled and I absolutely have SS to thank for that.

Mrs. Squirrels, we were all wondering what the fate of Squirrels was, speculating that in his obvious depression he might have even killed himself. It looks like someone worse than the Grim Reaper himself has found him. And even worse, a bad speller... ;]

Poor guy... The fact that this nut job felt compelled to make an account and scold us portends vary bad things for him.

I wonder if she ever considered that his exposure to SS over the years is the very foundation of whatever attracted her to him.

 

[Colossus]

I barely read a squirrels post, much like backbreakers crap it just became white noise toward the end for me anyway.

:yes:

People are always pining for this retired poster or that banned guy. Pook, PHM, Burroughs, squirrels...I think those people need to be led. They are either too mentally obtunded or too unsure of their own abilities in life to distill wisdom from their own experience.

Personally I think squirrels was weak. Maybe he's a cool guy IRL but he never offered much in the way of advice or positive direction, just a bunch of circular, cynical b!tching. Apparently he married one of Baltimore's intellectual juggernauts.

 

[Die Hard]

:yes:

People are always pining for this retired poster or that banned guy. Pook, PHM, Burroughs, squirrels...I think those people need to be led. They are either too mentally obtunded or too unsure of their own abilities in life to distill wisdom from their own experience.

Personally I think squirrels was weak. Maybe he's a cool guy IRL but he never offered much in the way of advice or positive direction, just a bunch of circular, cynical b!tching. Apparently he married one of Baltimore's intellectual juggernauts.

In all fairness, I think your opinion on Squirrels is pretty shortsighted. Sure, he had personal issues and used most of his posts to vent these. But that doesn't mean he sucked at gaming women or that he had nothing to offer in terms of advice to other posters. Actually, he offered LOTS of great advice! It just gets overshadowed by all his venting about his personal issues, which probably causes you to remember only that side of him.

Just my two cents...

 

[hithard]

"Maybe after his epiphany he is now a happily married man with two children and a gorgeous wife who loves him...respects him...and tends to all his needs. Way to go squirrel!!!!!"
In response to this statement someone made- Yes- we are happily married and he has told me to no end how embarrased he is of ever taking part of this rediculous masogonistic site.(Think about it, if you have to take the advice of people you dont know who prolly dont know anything themselves, then wouldnt it be better to make your own mistakes and learn from them than listen to what someone else is making up and dispensing at YOUR expense? this place is a joke- take it from a hot, succesfeul woman who has always had her pick- and I picked squirells, who knows as much about women as 99% of you do about brain surgery, LOL... The fake person he was on here is nothing like the man I married. All you guys who want to get women do yourselves a favor and get off the computer and get a real life not hiding behind a computer, askig others hiding behind a computer for advice. maybe then you can find some happiness....Most of these people on here dipensing advice may as well be virgins, dont be fooled, this place will only make a lonely disillusined fool of you......the fact that he has never been back to this ses pool speaks volumes- peace

Wow
So you join roughly a month after the original post and just happen to be scanning the boards almost three years later?
Who needs a life.
Just scanning your post there seems to be a few issues there, I question the word 'happily' in your marriage (if there even is one). You talk of 'fake online persona' but are you being anymore truthful with yourself?

I will say this to the guys reading. If your frame was shaken by the above attempt at shaming you need to develop a lot more inner fortitude.
This forum is not for sharing with wives or women.
This is a place for men to learn from other men's experiences. Ideas on what works and what doesn't. And a place too get troubles off your chest.
Never ever feel ashamed
Never ever let them shame you for being a man.
Never ever let them stop you from learning.
This forum has helped many.

From memory I thought there was a few posters who thought squirrels was a woman?

 

[VikingKing]

"Maybe after his epiphany he is now a happily married man with two children and a gorgeous wife who loves him...respects him...and tends to all his needs. Way to go squirrel!!!!!"
In response to this statement someone made- Yes- we are happily married and he has told me to no end how embarrased he is of ever taking part of this rediculous masogonistic site.(Think about it, if you have to take the advice of people you dont know who prolly dont know anything themselves, then wouldnt it be better to make your own mistakes and learn from them than listen to what someone else is making up and dispensing at YOUR expense? this place is a joke- take it from a hot, succesfeul woman who has always had her pick- and I picked squirells, who knows as much about women as 99% of you do about brain surgery, LOL... The fake person he was on here is nothing like the man I married. All you guys who want to get women do yourselves a favor and get off the computer and get a real life not hiding behind a computer, askig others hiding behind a computer for advice. maybe then you can find some happiness....Most of these people on here dipensing advice may as well be virgins, dont be fooled, this place will only make a lonely disillusined fool of you......the fact that he has never been back to this ses pool speaks volumes- peace

shut up slvt. You're hot huh? For now. Remember that will always have been you're biggest strength. Wait til that fades and you stop getting so much attention.

Look im good looking also. Thanks to my beautiful mother.

Being good looking makes certain aspects of my life easier. People are nicer to me, people are more accepting of me, people trust me easier .

But I'm also a dude. So my looks dont matter as much to me. As I get older it still wont matter.

You on the other-hand have a false confidence based on an inflated ego which is the result of a being put on a pedestal for years.

One day you will hit the wall, and hard. Won't matter that you're married, or have kids, or friends. Whats going to hurt is the lack of attention from men, and especially younger men that your receive now.

 

[Atom Smasher]

I don't know... can this really be Squirrel's wife?

 

[VikingKing]

I don't know... can this really be Squirrel's wife?

I mean it really doesn't matter, if it is or isn't, does it?

 

[VikingKing]

He's just doing what I did when I got married; being 100% honest about everything. Letting my ex-wife know that Sosuave existed was a huge mistake. Letting my ex-best friend know Sosuave existed was a huge mistake too. Unless the person is already well-versed in the subjects discussed here, I tell nobody about it. This forum rubs most outsiders the wrong way, especially women. We appear as bitter misogynists.

This is a good train of thought. I've found this to be true as well. Most reject it.

 

[Vulpine]

I don't know... can this really be Squirrel's wife?

There is a "subscribe" function.

Out of nowhere, when a thread is dredged up from the depths, *poof* an alert in your inbox.

You'll notice that's post #1 on the web stalker who joined several years ago to "make sure" Squirrels didn't try to come back here and learn anything new or teach anyone something new.


When I mentioned visiting a "men's health" forum to my frau, I did NOT say: "Go to www.sosuave.net and look for the poster Vulpine if you don't believe me."

Note that the main character in Fight Club didn't tell Marla about Fight Club, he only told her "I found something better: it's for MEN ONLY." He didn't talk about Fight Club. And, more importantly...
HE DID NOT TALK ABOUT FIGHT CLUB!
:trouble:

It occurred to me that butch lesbians could stand to gain some "getting their mind right" from here; and gay marriage is legal in places.

It also occurs to me that, should I ever be confronted about being here, I have the option of claiming to be someone else. "Yeah, baby, I went there. My handle was [Squirrels]."

We appear as bitter misogynists.

"Uncannily attractive bitter misogynists"

 

[Kailex]

Squirrels got married to backbreaker's sister!?!?!!

I keed, I keed.

 

[Jake722]

This "Don Juan" stuff...it works great for keeping control of yourself in a world filled with crazy female minds. It'll help you understand. But a little knowledge is a dangerous thing.

Sometimes, the very thing that keeps you alive in the dating game can also keep you alone. All of these seduction-angles we play...they can wreck women's confidence and self-esteem, can drive girls crazy that would have otherwise been "stable", and can end up destroying the affection they have for you. Be careful of engendering a "love-hate" relationship just so you can feed on the "love" part.

Sometimes the fortresses we build around our hearts and minds turn into prisons. Sometimes the ideas you implant in someone else's mind can grow into something that destroys them...or you. YOU can end up becoming the "crazy one". When you start to see the "truth" of human nature, you can end up shutting EVERYONE out, to the point where you turn intimacy with EVERYONE into a mind-f*ck competition, pushing them away to arm's length while trying to keep them from taking off completely.

If you have low self-esteem, "Juanning" it up is not the answer. The truth is in your own self-image. Become a worthy person, seek always to improve, and take pride in who you are. Believe you're the kind of man that a good woman would love to be with...act like that kind of man...and begin to see yourself as him.

I think this is a bit harsh on the website and it's purpose. You aren't simply just trying to drive girl crazy with the ideas posted on this site. A lot of what I read is about just being patient and not coming off eagerly to girls.

 

[logicallefty]

Agree with OP. In fact the guy who originally pointed me to this site told me that once you grasp the Don Juan mindset sometimes you have to back off a little in a LTR, but never loose your core principals.

As for Mrs. Squirrels, out of respect for Squirrels who I don't even know but out of respect for him as another man I am going to refrain from speaking my mind about you. Hey Squirrels, good luck man, I hope it works out I really do.. But wow....

 

[Albatross953]

It can't be his wife, I thought we were all fifty year old bald guys, posting in moms basement between pizza pockets and playing halo.

Am I on the wrong forum? Maybe I should switch to virginsforever.com.

MOM, I'LL TAKE THE TRASH OUT WHEN I'M DONE MY STORIES. BRING ME A DR PEPPER!!

 

[Fireballs]

Agree with OP. In fact the guy who originally pointed me to this site told me that once you grasp the Don Juan mindset sometimes you have to back off a little in a LTR, but never loose your core principals.

As for Mrs. Squirrels, out of respect for Squirrels who I don't even know but out of respect for him as another man I am going to refrain from speaking my mind about you. Hey Squirrels, good luck man, I hope it works out I really do.. But wow....

This is what I'm having trouble with now. Finding the balance and trying not to overanalyse things.

I'm learning to only take what I need from this site and to focus on the fundamentals.