Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single
She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.
You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.
The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.
Don't know why but this pof.com line most of the time works?
- Thread starter Fatal Jay
- Start date
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
Purefilth
Master Don Juan
Thats one i send through mostly, compliments of our very own Naughty Ninja.
Its light, complimentary and gives them a chuckle.
Thats why it works.
Naughty Ninja
Banned
Fatal Jay said:
It kindof gasses their heads up that you think of them as "marriage" material. Same thing with the mom opener I'd made up. That one has them thinking your mom wants you to date them and I think they think it's great you're close to your mom and she wants you to date them. Along with the "cheeky" humor of putting mom in the old age home..lol
As soon as I'd send both and they reply you just ask them how the site is treating them. Then for the final tell them I'm not on the site much feel free to give me your number and I'll give you a call sometime. (Your real first name).
It's all direct and to the point.
The wedding one is:
Can we skip our first meet altogether and just head straight to the wedding chapel? =)
The mom one is:
My roommate came into the room while I was looking at your profile and told me that if I didn’t message you, she would. Now, she’s straight, so that’s an probably an empty threat but she does have an eye for pretty chicks so I’m totally going to trust my mom’s judgment on this one.
Let me know if she’s correct or else I swear to sweet baby Jesus I’m going to fulfill my promise of shipping her off to the “resting” home...It's up to you to be a super heroine and save my mom or else: Jello time for mommy and a side order of strained peas and carrots...
Or you can try:
I was thinking of sending you a semi-perfect opening message then I thought to myself: "Hmmm, I don't know but this adorable, lil cutie looks like trouble right here..
Your cute and positive email reply to me in 5.....4.....3.....2....1...GO! =)
For chicks who just view your profile yet don't reply to the first emails or just view you at random send the below whom another SS poster had made up (forgot who it was though.):
Oh okay...I see how it is...So you think you can just waltz up to my profile looking all cute..point at my pictures while laughing..and not say anything? Don't be a spy...say hi! =) (Your real first name)
***The
should turn into a devil character with a pitchfork when sent on POF email.“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”
Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.
Naughty Ninja
Banned
Fatal Jay said:
You could also try first emails something like (or use as follow up's to the wedding opener message if they don't give their number on your first try.):
We're never going to experience our divorce if we don't meet up first...I say we both throw caution to the wind and just go for it! You? =) (Your real first name)
Or: "I wanted to let you know I had a dream with our future children in it last night. They told me to tell you they need us to meet and become their parents. Let's do it for our future beautiful babies. :angel: :angel: =) Love, Daddy A.K.A (Your real first name)
**The :angel: :angel: will turn into angels on POF email when sent.
They'll both automatically have chicks thinking you don't mind taking "risks" and have them thinking of possibly "losing" you with the first message and or "making babies" with the second right off the bat by planting those seeds in your first message.
If they respond to those I'd go right into asking them for their number with my second reply. IE:"I know what I want when I see it and I go for it without beating around the bush. Give me your number and I'll give you a call sometime. (your real first name) =)