ok here's the deal. there's this girl in my dorm that i like. i've hanged out with her a couple times, made her laugh and vibed with her. I even held her hand. Then I decided to to tell her that I had feelings for her and she was speechless. She looked shocked. Since then, I've been uncertain of what I should do. Should we discuss our situation with each other, go out on a date, I don't know. Plus I'm not sure of her feelings. What do yall think I should do?
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
don't know what's next
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- Start date