ok here's the deal. there's this girl in my dorm that i like. i've hanged out with her a couple times, made her laugh and vibed with her. I even held her hand. Then I decided to to tell her that I had feelings for her and she was speechless. She looked shocked. Since then, I've been uncertain of what I should do. Should we discuss our situation with each other, go out on a date, I don't know. Plus I'm not sure of her feelings. What do yall think I should do?
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
don't know what's next
- Thread starter mvin10
- Start date