"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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ok here's the deal. there's this girl in my dorm that i like. i've hanged out with her a couple times, made her laugh and vibed with her. I even held her hand. Then I decided to to tell her that I had feelings for her and she was speechless. She looked shocked. Since then, I've been uncertain of what I should do. Should we discuss our situation with each other, go out on a date, I don't know. Plus I'm not sure of her feelings. What do yall think I should do?
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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mostwantedbabyfather

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Have you talked to her at all lately? Id think if you were holding hands with her youd should have had a shot at her. You should have just taken action instead of telling her. I would just talk to her like i never told her and just react to the vibe she displays.
 
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thanx for the advice. well i have seen her lately, but it's been a little awkward when i see her.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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yeah, big mistake telling her how you feel. you've got to SHOW her how you feel...talk is cheap. My advice is just to act like you never said anything to her about your "feelings" and pick up where you left off.
 
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