"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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dont know what to do abouit this girl

eax5

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In one of my classes I site across this girl, who never actually payed attention to me ( or maybe I have never noticed). Lately I have been working out, getting ripped up. My confidence has been going up posture; started girls checking me out constantly, you get the picture. So the point is that I notice she keeps on looking at me, I wound say like 15 times a period. Some times I look away first; some times she looks away with a spark in her eyes. But I never actually have talked to get before, and don’t know what to do, or how to start it. Last time I head that she had a boyfriend in a different school but not sure if that’s true. She is a sophomore and I a junior. BTW don’t laugh at me, I actually never had a girl friend before.:(
 
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“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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Well, you should approach her...thats a start. Start conversing with her. The longer you wait - the less interested she may get. So just take a chance. Life is about risks. If you don't take them...wouldn't life be a total drag? Risk = Having Fun...like going snowboarding. Technically, it is dangerious - as is anything. So f.uck the danger, take a risk. Whats the worst that can happen - you'll fall on you @$$. Get back up, and eventually, you'll master the technique (snowboarding --- girls) :D
 

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God made holidays so that shy guys could find topics to approach girls and talk about. True story.

Ask her about her thanksgiving! Then have sex with her!
 

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nah i know i need to do that but how to aproach her, i dont sit next to her, the only time i got is before the period and after the period 2 mins there and here
 

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Get up. Look at her. Walk towards her.

Approach complete.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Do you ever hold eye contact? becuase somtiems in class when I am really bored I look around so maybe she was just bored. But you never know usually you can tell by eye contact or a smile. But just go for it anyway what do you have to lose. Just start talkin to her joke around whatever get her number there ya go maybe mention a party and ask her if she wanna go
 
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