"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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dont know what to do abouit this girl

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In one of my classes I site across this girl, who never actually payed attention to me ( or maybe I have never noticed). Lately I have been working out, getting ripped up. My confidence has been going up posture; started girls checking me out constantly, you get the picture. So the point is that I notice she keeps on looking at me, I wound say like 15 times a period. Some times I look away first; some times she looks away with a spark in her eyes. But I never actually have talked to get before, and don’t know what to do, or how to start it. Last time I head that she had a boyfriend in a different school but not sure if that’s true. She is a sophomore and I a junior. BTW don’t laugh at me, I actually never had a girl friend before.:(
 
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"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Well, you should approach her...thats a start. Start conversing with her. The longer you wait - the less interested she may get. So just take a chance. Life is about risks. If you don't take them...wouldn't life be a total drag? Risk = Having Fun...like going snowboarding. Technically, it is dangerious - as is anything. So f.uck the danger, take a risk. Whats the worst that can happen - you'll fall on you @$$. Get back up, and eventually, you'll master the technique (snowboarding --- girls) :D
 

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God made holidays so that shy guys could find topics to approach girls and talk about. True story.

Ask her about her thanksgiving! Then have sex with her!
 

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nah i know i need to do that but how to aproach her, i dont sit next to her, the only time i got is before the period and after the period 2 mins there and here
 

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Get up. Look at her. Walk towards her.

Approach complete.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Do you ever hold eye contact? becuase somtiems in class when I am really bored I look around so maybe she was just bored. But you never know usually you can tell by eye contact or a smile. But just go for it anyway what do you have to lose. Just start talkin to her joke around whatever get her number there ya go maybe mention a party and ask her if she wanna go
 
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