“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Don't know if I should ask this girl out, need help from the experts

lougv22

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ok, here is the situation: i went to a live rock concert last Friday and I met this girl there. My buddy and I were just sitting there enjoying the music and she came over and sat right next to me, she was by her self. She was kind of cute so I started a conversation with her. It was going pretty good, before long we exchanged phone numbers, she touched me on the arm once, and even mentioned something about me calling her. I was like, 'i may just do that', but I played it cool, i didn't express interest in her, even ignored her for a while, but she stuck around for a long time, at least an hour.

My plan was to call her and aske her to go for coffe 2 days later, but lo and be hold on Sunday morning, i.e. 2 days later, she texts me on my cell phone at 8:46 in the morning. I didn't text her back until 1 p.m. that day, actually that was not intentional, I didn't even see I had a text until about noon. Well, as soon as I text her she texts me back, I was like ookk. I waited about half an hour and text her back, played it cool again. This time she didn't respond for about 5 hours. Well, I didn't respond until the next day, and when I did I said 'Hi [her name], I am going to be busy the next couple of days but let's get together for a cup of coffee and stimulating conversation later this week.'

Well, that was on Monday around noon and she hasn't answered yet. I am kind of buffled because at first she showed high Interest Level and now she is not answering at all. What should I do now? I am thinking of just calling her and asking her out for coffee.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Lucas718

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Call her.

Don't ask her out through email or txt msg. It's weak. And stop quoting David Deangelo.
 

blinkwatt

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People try to play hard to get through texting. Say you send a text,the othe person can sit there and not respond to your text for awhile,even though the phone may be in their hand the whole time. Just call her up!
 

trance_addict

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When in doubt, ask her out.

She accepts, great, you know her interest level. She rejects? Great, move on to the next one.
 

swaptrex

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blinkwatt said:
People try to play hard to get through texting. Say you send a text,the othe person can sit there and not respond to your text for awhile,even though the phone may be in their hand the whole time. Just call her up!
i am so fvcking sick of girls doing that, txting you first and then when you reply they play stupid games. lol
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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lougv22

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alright! i just called her and asked her out for tomorrow and she said 'yes'! thanks for the advice guys!
 
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