"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Don't go out and spend money at bars and clubs ..

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Inspired by this thread, I went to a local joint last night who I know are hiring weekend staff. Put my CV in this morning. Just been offered trial shift on Saturday. Supplementary income and paid socialising, here we come.

Cheers @cola
Sweet! I bet you get so many more girls .. Watch and see
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Dont you guys realize the girls at the clubs are the SAME ones at the gym the mall the coffee shop the hiking trail etc. Women are social as fuk and even the good ones go out to downtown nightlife venues. You are ignorant if you think otherwise. Yeah theres the trash thats out every weekend of course, but the rest are just the regular girls you see everyday.
A lot of HOT women don't go clubbing at all.

If you can't afford to buy a clue, maybe you can take out a loan or borrow money from a friend? lol.

Clubbing is not for EVERYONE. It never was and it never will be.
 

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Limitations in your paradigms Solo? Let me know how this thinking served you in the next 10 years.
Your fake it till you make it paradigm limited your freedom and had you serving a 10 year bid in the joint. Are you suggesting Solo go to prison like you did so he could "rise from the ashes" to become a psuedo"multi-millionaire" posting on an anonymous forum for another decade of his life?
 

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A lot of UGLY women don't go clubbing at all.

If you can't afford to buy a clue, maybe you can take out a loan or borrow money from a friend? lol.

Clubbing is not for ME. It never was and it never will be.
I Fixed that for you...lol
 

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Solo, you endorse Naughty Ninja's statement. Good to see who your friends are ;)
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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meh. nightlife world is BORING. you really enjoy being surrounded by demons and scum just to "get paid" some chump ass change. no offense but bouncers dont make chit, are easily replaced and get fked up in fights or end up getting stomped out/stabbed/whatever. nightclub managers are the greasiest mofos you will meet and the dj is usually the most down to earth.

dont be the sperry wearing phaggot screaming in a shirt, dont be the sleazy manager banging drugged up sloots, dont be the tough guy bouncer whos fate is getting fked up eventually..and dont be a soulless club drone or thinks going out and being in the nightlife scene is the end all be all of the world. realize its hollow and scummy and keep your distance from places of the devils work. the crazy chit ive seen managing strip clubs and working as a promoter for events and nightclubs is the stuff you dont wanna deal with.

getting robbed at gunpoint and blown away with a 12 guage shotty isnt worth it. being framed for rape is not a walk in the park. extortion from gangs and criminals and dealing with violent drunks nightly will JADE the fuk out of you and slowly drain your soul. trust me bros its not glamour it aint glitzy. Its not bad to be exposed to the dark underbelly of society so that you can realize whats going on behind the scenes. but i wouldnt recommend it as a career option. do it for a bit to stack some chips, and then bugout when you can fly more legit working for yourself or for a reputable business thats doing something positive.

your better off staying in more wholesome environments or chill upper class lounges rubbing elbows with the "civilized"..especially with how ratchet our instagram society has gotten.

Thats my opinion you can take it or leave it. Yeah there is alot of oppurtunity out there but be willing to realize what you are sacrificing to be in that scene. you can heed my warning or find out for yourself.
Lol I had to laugh at this

While it may sound like a movie, sadly a lot of what you said is true. I think that this is why you wanna stick to lounges or higher end places (another reason I don't go downtown anymore cause of how trashy it has become)

I had a buddy who use to be a bouncer and he hated it, the ironic part is when we would go out he would act just like that. It's truly something to behold seeing people act drunk or high and your completely sober and in control
 

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Solo, you endorse Naughty Ninja's statement. Good to see who your friends are ;)
I hit like on a comment honestly who cares? if that's how you get your validation these days *shrugs*

*continues to check the bitcoin market*
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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guitarplayer said:
Outward success is no garentee off inward success
Outward success is a manifestation of inward success.

Now String, why don't you stop editing your post, sit outside the club, grab a dictionary, learn how to spell, play your guitar and panhandle for change. That's about as much usefulness as you provided in this thread.
 
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I was a bouncer in several high end and popular Philly clubs about a decade ago. Unfortunately I didn't do very well with club sloots. A dorky bouncer is still dorky!

I did meet an incredible assortment of people though. People far more powerful and connected than my equally dorky friends. THAT was were I got value from my experience! I have been able to parlay these connects for years since.
 

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I was a bouncer in several high end and popular Philly clubs about a decade ago. Unfortunately I didn't do very well with club sloots. A dorky bouncer is still dorky!
I think this is what it comes down to. @cola makes some good points, but just because you put a guy around women all day, that doesn't mean any of the women will be attracted to him.

If the bouncer has decent looks, a good personality, and dresses like he has his financial house in order.....he can pull women in the bar, the club, the gas station, online, or anywhere women are.
 

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I Fixed that for you...lol
You fixed it to be a FALSE statement. Good job.

A lot of HOT women don't go clubbing. Its a fact.

The more you post, the more clueless you reveal yourself to be lol.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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You fixed it to be a FALSE statement. Good job.

A lot of HOT women don't go clubbing. Its a fact.

The more you post, the more clueless you reveal yourself to be lol.
Says the KBJ...I would run circles around you in the field and i know this to be a fact

I have gone out with several members who can vouch for me, have you? is there anyone in this forum that can vouch for your game? have you posted proof of game? field reports with pics/videos and audio footage?

Put your money where your mouth is.....you can talk the talk but what about seeing you in action?
 

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Says the KBJ...I would run circles around you in the field and i know this to be a fact

I have gone out with several members who can vouch for me, have you? is there anyone in this forum that can vouch for your game? have you posted proof of game? field reports with pics/videos and audio footage?

Put your money where your mouth is.....you can talk the talk but what about seeing you in action?
Personal attacks because you can't back up your argument.

You're the real KBJ.

Prove that 100% of HOT women like going clubbing. Yes.. please PROVE IT. I'll wait lol.
 

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Personal attacks because you can't back up your argument.

You're the real KBJ.

Prove that 100% of HOT women like going clubbing. Yes.. please PROVE IT. I'll wait lol.
Prove that you have game period!!!

In my sosuave tenure I have gone out with roughly 5-8 SS members...my Field reports are there if you wanna skim through them(as well as reports they posted)

bwhahahahaahhah
 

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Prove that you have game period!!!

In my sosuave tenure I have gone out with roughly 5-8 SS members...my Field reports are there if you wanna skim through them(as well as reports they posted)

bwhahahahaahhah
Don't give a sh*t about your life bro.

You said 100% of attractive women go clubbing. A statement so absurd I almost wet myself laughing.

Until you PROVE that.. I have nothing more to say to you.
 

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Don't give a sh*t about your life bro.

You said 100% of attractive women go clubbing. A statement so absurd I almost wet myself laughing.

Until you PROVE that.. I have nothing more to say to you.

there are certain hot women that cant dance, or are too insecure to go in club
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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